Mollie, this is beautiful 
I absolutely love your description of the kind of mother you want to be, and by extension, the kind of childhood you want your children to have. You’ve inspired me to do my own! May or may not post it on here, we’ll see 
Some name suggestions…
little women
Marigold
Winifred (Winnie)
Elsie
Clementine
Sylvie
Birdie
Mabel
Juniper
Felicity
Edith (Edie)
little men
Otis
Hugo
Albie
Wells
Theodore (Teddy)
Elias
Linus
Reuben
Laurie
Forest