Interestingly, I would say the style of both lists fairly similar. You both have an eye for modern surnames ([name]Gage[/name], [name]Tate[/name], [name]Maddox[/name], [name]Harper[/name]), off-beat vintage picks ([name]Lane[/name], [name]Desmond[/name], [name]Cyrus[/name], [name]Eli[/name]), and on-trend contemporary names ([name]Cade[/name], [name]Valen[/name], [name]Jax[/name], [name]Kai[/name]). I’m surprised that you disagree, haha, but I think this means there’s lots of room to find a happy compromise.
There are a lot here I like, though I don’t know that my opinion will be all that useful in settling anything. FWIW, [name]Gage[/name], [name]Reed[/name], [name]Tate[/name], [name]Jude[/name], [name]Channing[/name], [name]Desmond[/name], [name]Lane[/name], [name]Silas[/name], [name]Cyrus[/name], [name]Eli[/name], and [name]Owen[/name] get my thumbs up, haha. Perhaps some compromise could be made in nicknames since the B list seems to like short nicknames: [name]Desmond[/name] has spunky [name]Dez[/name], [name]Cyrus[/name] or [name]Silas[/name] have [name]Cy[/name], [name]Jude[/name] could even be called [name]Jay[/name] for the first initial.
If you disagree on all these in a way where no compromise on these lists will be made, though, perhaps it’s best to look for something both of you like that isn’t here. These might meet some of those categories:
[name]Grant[/name]
[name]Graham[/name]
[name]Nolan[/name]
[name]Rowan[/name]
[name]Dixon[/name] ([name]Dix[/name])
[name]Rhys[/name]
[name]Killian[/name] or [name]Kieran[/name]
[name]Elliot[/name] ([name]Eli[/name])
[name]Knox[/name]
[name]Marston[/name]/[name]Marsden[/name] ([name]Mars[/name])
[name]Russell[/name]
[name]Bryce[/name]
[name]Barrett[/name] (nn [name]Bear[/name] or [name]Rhett[/name])
[name]Brooks[/name]
[name]Damon[/name]
[name]Tobin[/name] or [name]Tobias[/name] ([name]Toby[/name])
[name]Flynn[/name] or [name]Finnian[/name] ([name]Finn[/name])
[name]Bridger[/name]