[name]Hi[/name] all! Our daughter was born seven weeks ago, and we named her [name]Elena[/name]. Thanks for all the feedback on the names! I am mostly happy with her name, although I still sometimes feel sad we didn’t use [name]Magdalena[/name], which my husband felt sounded too Hispanic or Eastern European for our daughter (who is half-Korean, half-WASP). We actually waited to decide until she was born, thinking I might know which one I wanted when I saw her. I didn’t!
In any case, I am in the house all day with [name]Elena[/name] and starting to think of what I might name a second daughter, if I had one. (I am not pregnant, just having fun dreaming about names.) I have a boy name picked out, but I have no idea what I would name another daughter, and now that I’ve picked one name, I kind of want another name to be a reasonable stylistic match. Help me brainstorm.
Here’s what I would be looking for:
A name that is classic and timeless, not trendy.
A name (ideally) that has something to do with light, fire, or brightness, in order to match the Korean generational name. ([name]Elena[/name], a form of [name]Helen[/name], means “torch” or “shining, bright.”)
A name that “sounds right” for a half-Korean, all-American baby… i.e., not associated with an ethnicity we do not belong to (re: [name]Magdalena[/name]).
Does not end in an -ee sound, because our last name is Li. (I like [name]Audrey[/name], but it’s too sing-songy with our last name.)
The name that immediately springs to mind for me is [name]Diana[/name], goddess of the moon, but because I have a negative association with the name from a former student, I don’t think I could ever name a daughter that… which is too bad, because otherwise it’s perfect. If it helps, the other names at the top of my old list were [name]Caroline[/name] and [name]Vivian[/name]. (I crossed off [name]Vivian[/name] because of [name]Vivian[/name] [name]Leigh[/name], unfortunately.)