Hubby and I had chosen [name_f]Isla[/name_f] for our girl on the way.
Everyone is saying iz-la or ee-sla. Some of them undoubtedly on purpose, but I digress. I have pronounced it for everyone who had any questions or issues and that wasn’t a big deal. Then I found out it is super popular overseas, meaning it will probably start to take on a higher ranking here. I can get over that, considering I have an [name_m]Ethan[/name_m] and [name_u]Aidan[/name_u] and those are pretty popular. But I have to love the name enough.
Then it was pointed out it was one letter off from Islam. Which in itself is not a big issue but many people carry a slight negative impression due to news coverage, radicals (who don’t represent a majority by far but are the only ones who get attention lately), etc.
Then it was pointed out it is similar to my youngest son’s name, which is [name_m]Silas[/name_m].
THEN hubby’s friend just had a baby and named her [name_f]Isla[/name_f].
I am really, REALLY starting to not be able to look past all of these things.
I love the way it sounds but I don’t want to spell it phonetically like [name_f]Ilah[/name_f]. I can happily get on board with [name_f]Lilah[/name_f], even though it’s my cousin’s name (assuming she didn’t mind.) I would use [name_f]Lydia[/name_f] in a heartbeat but one of my best friends did. I like [name_f]Bella[/name_f] but not enough to commit to it. I like [name_f]Adeline[/name_f] but I keep thinking of cell phone commercials (add a line for only $9.99!) or the nickname [name_f]Addy[/name_f], which is far too prominent in this area to risk having a fifth [name_f]Addy[/name_f]/[name_f]Maddy[/name_f] in a small class.
[name_m]Long[/name_m] story short, I need suggestions. I like classic names that don’t lend themselves to nicknames, unless there’s a rare chance I really like the nickname. I feel like I only see the same few names over and over again. I love my daughter [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]'s first name, so anything that “feels like” [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]. What do you think of [name_f]Audrey[/name_f] and [name_f]Lilah[/name_f] as sisters?
Help! haha