[name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] and [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]. I am in desperate need of names that are polar opposites of these two. What are some names that are still lovely in their own right, but don’t fit at all with [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] or [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]?
Super classic button up names or super trendy…
[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Susannah[/name_f]
[name_u]Meredith[/name_u]
[name_f]Margaret[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleonora[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Katherine[/name_f]
Or
[name_f]Ashlyn[/name_f]
[name_u]Teagan[/name_u]
[name_u]Harper[/name_u]
I can’t imagine trendy-old names [name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] or [name_f]Mabel[/name_f] really going with them.
They feel very 00s-baby to me, so you might even want to go with something mid century, [name_f]Doris[/name_f], [name_f]Beryl[/name_f], [name_f]Ellen[/name_f], [name_f]Janine[/name_f]?
I was thinking established classics might be the antithesis of these two - nothing is less [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] than [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], is it now?
The reason I want something different is that these will be my daughter’s cousins, and I want to avoid creating some sort of girly-girl trifecta with her name.
[name_f]Ashlyn[/name_f], [name_u]Teagan[/name_u], and [name_u]Harper[/name_u]…/shudder. Not my style, lol!
[name_m]Ah[/name_m], okay! I guess [name_f]Beryl[/name_f] isn’t quite what you’re looking for. Something more along the lines of [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] then…
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucinda[/name_f]
[name_f]Philippa[/name_f]
[name_f]Madeleine[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f]
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosemary[/name_f]
[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]
[name_f]Camille[/name_f]
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f]
The [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] I know best has a little sister [name_f]Hermione[/name_f]; I feel this is probably an anomaly though, they’re not the best matched. I have a close friend called [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] with sister [name_u]Ruby[/name_u], born before both names seemed to take off popularity-wise. Their parents just liked red.
Since [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] and [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] are both wordy I’d just avoid word names. But in reality I wouldn’t worry too much. I think it would be cute for cousins to have similarly feminine names. And ultimately it doesn’t matter a massive amount.
Thanks [name_f]Olivia[/name_f], I really do like [name_f]Camille[/name_f], but I have a long-standing love affair with [name_m]Charles[/name_m] [name_f]Camille[/name_f] [name_m]Saint[/name_m]-Saëns and it would forever remind me of him. I’ve considered using the American English pronunciation to distance the name from this association. I do worry about the nn [name_f]Cammy[/name_f], though.
I actually like [name_f]Beryl[/name_f], but it rhymes with my name 
I’m running into problems with name associations. [name_f]Madeleine[/name_f] is the name of my husband’s daughter’s dead step-sister. I still like it, but that might be…awkward.
I like [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f], no negative PERSONAL associations there at least.
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] speaks “southern belle” to me, so I’d suggest something urban, cutting edge, a little “hipster”, if you will. It’s also exceptionally feminine and flowing, so something short and a little boyish might work.
[name_u]Wren[/name_u]
[name_u]Scout[/name_u]
[name_f]Lark[/name_f]
[name_f]Ellie[/name_f]
[name_f]Maeve[/name_f]
[name_f]Brigid[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Femke[/name_f]
[name_f]Aster[/name_f]
[name_f]Effy[/name_f]
[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]
[name_f]Sigrid[/name_f]
[name_f]Ada[/name_f]
[name_u]Tali[/name_u]
[name_f]Eve[/name_f], [name_f]Evie[/name_f]
[name_f]Fia[/name_f]
[name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] has a flowery, princessy theme going, much like [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f], so something a little more formal and stiff might work.
[name_f]Catherine[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Virginia[/name_f]
[name_f]Arabella[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]
[name_f]Bernadette[/name_f]
[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Isabella[/name_f]
Combining the antithesis of those two (hipster, androgynous and regal, formal), you get a Greek mythological theme:
[name_u]Artemis[/name_u]
[name_u]Demeter[/name_u]
[name_f]Ianthe[/name_f]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u]
[name_f]Pandora[/name_f]
[name_f]Ariadne[/name_f]
[name_f]Venus[/name_f]
[name_f]Thalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Aphrodite[/name_f]
[name_f]Nyx[/name_f]
[name_u]Calypso[/name_u]
[name_f]Medea[/name_f]
[name_f]Andromeda[/name_f], [name_f]Andromache[/name_f]
[name_f]Vesta[/name_f]
[name_f]Minerva[/name_f]
Heyyyy [name_f]Beryl[/name_f]'s my name! 
I’d go with something classic. You can never go wrong with classic.
[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]
[name_f]Catherine[/name_f]
Or, I’d go with something from mythology.
[name_f]Persephone[/name_f]
[name_f]Gaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Athena[/name_f]
[name_f]Isis[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f]
[name_f]Wilma[/name_f]
Sia
[name_u]Alden[/name_u]
[name_u]Blaire[/name_u]
[name_f]Cleo[/name_f]
[name_f]Minnie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ingrid[/name_f]
Thanks to everyone for the suggestions, plenty of beauties in there that I had not considered yet. Bibliophile, I like your style - been leaning more toward mythological names lately myself.
I chuckled at formal and stiff, that perfectly describes my naming personality!