Naming a girl after 2 boys

Hello! We have two boys [name_m]Jacob[/name_m] and [name_u]Dylan[/name_u], and are now pregnant with a girl. I was leaning towards [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] (not common where I live, despite the trends), but I I’m not sure I like its meaning…pledged to God. We’re not particularly religious, and I don’t think my husband will go for this.

Our daughter will be given a family name as a middle name: [name_f]May[/name_f] or [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] most likely.

My husband and I, and our last name [name_m]Allen[/name_m], all have two syllables.

What suggestions do you have that go with [name_m]Jacob[/name_m] and [name_u]Dylan[/name_u]?

[name_f]Isabel[/name_f] goes really well with [name_m]Jacob[/name_m] and [name_u]Dylan[/name_u]! I think [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] is a beautiful combo:)

Congrats on your baby girl! I personally love [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] but can see how the meaning doesn’t fit. Some other suggestions:
[name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Chloe[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f] (such a cute sibset with your sons’ names!)
[name_f]Sara[/name_f]
[name_f]Lauren[/name_f]
[name_f]Olivia[/name_f]
[name_u]Skye[/name_u]

I think most (if not all) of these work with at least one of your two middle name options as well. Good luck and I hoped this helped!

Kathrynk2312, thanks for your ideas! You seem to have an insight into my family…my name is [name_f]Sara[/name_f], my niece is [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], and if [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] weren’t so common (way more Olivias here, than Isabels), we would have gone with that. [name_f]Carolyn[/name_f] is my mother-in-law’s name, so [name_f]Caroline[/name_f] is a little too close. We also have a close cousin, named [name_f]Anna[/name_f]. Ha, you are good with names!

I love [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u].

Maybe:
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Cecily[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Louise[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Sabina[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Isolde[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Freya[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Georgina[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Giselle[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Boudicca[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Amoret[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Juliet[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Cressida[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Megan[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Saoirse[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Ottilie[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]

Personally, I wouldn’t be worried about the religious meaning of [name_f]Isabel[/name_f]. [name_f]Isabella[/name_f] and sister name [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] are amongst the most popular names in the USA right now, so given the proportion of the population that is religious, a good lot of the girls named [name_f]Isabella[/name_f], [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] or [name_f]Isabel/name_f would not be from [name_m]Christian[/name_m] families. I definitely think [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] is usable if you aren’t religious.

You seem to like simple and straightforward names that are feminine without being too froufrou, so here are some suggestions:

[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_f]Cara[/name_f]
[name_f]Bella[/name_f]
[name_f]Georgia[/name_f]
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Mara[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]/[name_f]Rosie[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Maya[/name_f]
[name_f]Sophie[/name_f]
[name_f]Ava[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f]
[name_f]Amy[/name_f]

[name_f]Isabel[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f] would be beautiful. But if your husband isn’t sold on [name_f]Isabel[/name_f]…

[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_f]Naomi[/name_f]
[name_f]Lily[/name_f]
[name_f]Katherine[/name_f] ([name_f]Kate[/name_f])
[name_f]Grace[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_u]Eden[/name_u]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]

[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u], and [name_f]Laura[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]

These are great suggestions, thank you. I do like straight forward and simple! My husband has vetoed most of your list though…[name_u]Eloise[/name_u] ([name_f]Elsie[/name_f]), [name_f]Maya[/name_f], [name_f]Violet[/name_f], [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f], and [name_f]Audrey[/name_f] have all be vetoed-guess he’s kind of picky. [name_f]Amy[/name_f] is is my [name_m]SIL[/name_m].

I love [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] and [name_f]Isabel[/name_f]! Is [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] a first name option? If not:

[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]

There are plenty of other names that are similar to [name_f]Isabel[/name_f], if that’s something you’d be interested in! If you like the “Iso-” part, there’s Isora and [name_f]Isolde[/name_f]. If you like the “-bel” part, there’s [name_f]Anabel[/name_f], [name_f]Arabel[/name_f], [name_f]Mirabel[/name_f], and [name_f]Clarabel[/name_f] (among others).

I particularly like [name_f]Anabel[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]!

I think [name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] go great together but I understand why you don’t want to use it.
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and…
[name_f]Aurora[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]*
[name_f]Hope[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] [name_f]May[/name_f]*
[name_f]Stella[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilia[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Sienna[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Sienna[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]*
[name_f]Lacey[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f] or [name_f]Lacie[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]*
[name_u]Haven[/name_u] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Madelyn[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Charlotte[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]*
[name_f]Alexandra[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Bridie[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Savannah[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_u]Aubrey[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f] or [name_f]Aubree[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_u]Rylan[/name_u] [name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_u]Riley[/name_u] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]*

[name_f]Isabel[/name_f] is very pretty. Maybe you could find a famous [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] to connect the name to so the literal meaning is less important.

[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Autumn[/name_f]
[name_u]Avery[/name_u]
[name_f]Camilla[/name_f]
[name_f]Camille[/name_f]
[name_f]Ella[/name_f]
[name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]

Have you considered other [name_u]Isa[/name_u]- and -bella names? [name_f]Bella[/name_f]/[name_f]Belle[/name_f], [name_f]Arabella[/name_f], [name_f]Annabelle[/name_f], [name_f]Isadora[/name_f], [name_f]Isabeau[/name_f], [name_f]Isannah[/name_f], [name_f]Isaura[/name_f], [name_f]Isolde[/name_f]…

Other suggestions – hopefully no repeats!

[name_u]Darcy[/name_u] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f] or [name_f]Ada[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Macy[/name_f] or [name_f]Maisie[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Calista[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Delilah[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Jessamy[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Nina[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Arla[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Imogen[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Madeline[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Gemma[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_u]Josie[/name_u] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_f]Lena[/name_f] or [name_f]Leona[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]

Unfortunately, [name_u]Carmen[/name_u] is not a first name choice. We love it as a middle name, but not so much as a first name. I love [name_f]Iris[/name_f], but it doesn’t really go with our last name (too many initial vowel sounds). Same problem with [name_f]Isla[/name_f] and [name_f]Audrey[/name_f]. I’m kind of a big [name_m]Gilmore[/name_m] Girls fan, and my husband will never let me go with [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f]. I like your list, the names just don’t fit perfectly.

Great list! I like a lot of these names ([name_f]Madeline[/name_f], [name_f]Lena[/name_f] and [name_f]Maisie[/name_f], but SO has turned them down already). [name_f]Hannah[/name_f], [name_f]Hazel[/name_f], [name_f]Isla[/name_f], and [name_f]Cora[/name_f] are out, due to close friends/family members already having them. [name_f]Nina[/name_f] might work!

[name_m]Hi[/name_m], I don’t think that [name_f]Isabel[/name_f] goes with [name_m]Jacob[/name_m] and [name_u]Dylan[/name_u]. It seems more conservative European, more of a Latin name. [name_m]Jacob[/name_m] and [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] feel more all-American and zesty. They almost feel a bit cowboy-ish.

[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Audrey[/name_f] [name_f]May[/name_f]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Felicity[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_u]River[/name_u]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Elsie[/name_f]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Cassia[/name_f]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_u]Bellamy[/name_u]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Amy[/name_f] [name_u]Carmen[/name_u]
[name_m]Jacob[/name_m], [name_u]Dylan[/name_u] and [name_f]Maisie[/name_f]