Naming Miscarried Baby

Hello all. Unfortunately after years of infertility, we found out last week that I was having a miscarriage. This is my first pregnancy. I was only about 6 weeks along, so we don’t know if the baby was a boy or girl. We decided the baby’s first name would be [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] and are looking for a unisex middle to go with it. Some ideas we’ve had are [name_m]Ellis[/name_m], [name_m]Kit[/name_m], [name_m]Lowry[/name_m], [name_m]Ryan[/name_m], [name_f]Page[/name_f], [name_f]Monroe[/name_f], [name_f]Sloane[/name_f], [name_f]Blue[/name_f], [name_m]Hart[/name_m], [name_m]Beck[/name_m], [name_m]Noel[/name_m], and [name_f]Scotland[/name_f]. Any other ideas for us? [name_m]Or[/name_m] do you have a favorite from this list? Thanks!

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I’m so sorry for your loss :heart: [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] is a lovely name.

I think [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ellis[/name_m], [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hart[/name_m], and [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Kit[/name_m] are all beautiful options.

Maybe you would like…
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Adair[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Alexis[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]August[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Avery[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Aubrey[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Baylor[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Blair[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Blake[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Campbell[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Casey[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Clarke[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Delaney[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Darcy[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Drew[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Elliot[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Emery[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ever[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Finley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Harley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Harper[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hollis[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Indy[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Jules[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Jesse[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Luca[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Lennox[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Lux[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Lyric[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Marlowe[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Merrit[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Marley[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Micah[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]North[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Navy[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Oakley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Phoenix[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Presley[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Quinn[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Reese[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sailor[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Scout[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Sawyer[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Skyler[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sage[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Stevie[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Tatum[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Taylor[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]True[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Winter[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m]

I’m so sorry for your loss :heart:

[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hart[/name_m] and [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ellis[/name_m] are lovely.

I’d suggest:

[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Adair[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Amory[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]True[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sasha[/name_f]

I’m so sorry for your loss :yellow_heart:

I think [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] is a gorgeous choice! You’ve had lots of lovely suggestions so count any repeats as me being in agreement with the berries

[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Marlowe[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Winslet[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Winslow[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Harlow[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Oakley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Quinn[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Blaire[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Penrose[/name_m]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps

Sorry to hear this.

I like [name_m]Ellis[/name_m], and the dear [name_m]Hart[/name_m] and [name_m]Kit[/name_m].

I apologize in advance if this is insensitive, but could you tell me the day he or she died and/or the due date? This will help me. Thank you!

One name that stands out to me so far is “Agny,” which I’ve seen for both male and female children. It means both “pure” and “fire,” which I think is perfect for a short but vibrant life. Also the patronage would be the Virgin Mary, whether you’re religious or not.

Agny Peregrine
Agny Mercy
Agny Innocente
Agny Linden
Agny Evergreen
Agny Willow
Agny Lucca
Agny Juno
Agny Winter
Agny Shiloh
Agny Quinn
Agny Hollis
Agny Hillaire
Agny Harmony
Laurie Agny

EDIT: (I might keep updating this) I saw a name “Agny Laurie Olsen” (any of those names you could probably use). She went by “Lillemor,” which means “little mother” in Nordic. But a gender neutral version is “Lillebo,” meaning “little nest”. Also, “Agny Lucca” means “Pure fire, bringer of light.”

Agny Lillebo
Lillebo Agny
Agny Hollis Olsen
Agny Lillebo Olsen
Hollis Agny Olsen
Olsen Laurie Agny
Hollis Laurie Agny

[name_f]My[/name_f] condolences, so sorry for your loss,

I like [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Blue[/name_f] and [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Page[/name_f]

I love [name_m]Hart[/name_m] from your list as even though it was a short life they were loved every minute of it. I know the name meaning is different but I can’t help making the love connection anyway.
Another you may like is [name_m]Pax[/name_m] meaning [name_m]Peace[/name_m].

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I am so sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking.

I am so happy that you are naming your baby. I really like [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sloane[/name_f], [name_f]Blue[/name_f], [name_f]Scotland[/name_f].

Other suggestions:

[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Cove[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]River[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Storm[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Arcadia[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Rain[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Gale[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Brookes[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Ember[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Love[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]True[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sage[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Halo[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Forever[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Justice[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Day[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Quinn[/name_f]

[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Echo[/name_f] (May your love echo through to the heavens so little [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] knows how much they are loved every day.)