Hello all. Unfortunately after years of infertility, we found out last week that I was having a miscarriage. This is my first pregnancy. I was only about 6 weeks along, so we don’t know if the baby was a boy or girl. We decided the baby’s first name would be [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] and are looking for a unisex middle to go with it. Some ideas we’ve had are [name_m]Ellis[/name_m], [name_m]Kit[/name_m], [name_m]Lowry[/name_m], [name_m]Ryan[/name_m], [name_f]Page[/name_f], [name_f]Monroe[/name_f], [name_f]Sloane[/name_f], [name_f]Blue[/name_f], [name_m]Hart[/name_m], [name_m]Beck[/name_m], [name_m]Noel[/name_m], and [name_f]Scotland[/name_f]. Any other ideas for us? [name_m]Or[/name_m] do you have a favorite from this list? Thanks!
9 Likes
I’m so sorry for your loss 
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] is a lovely name.
I think [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ellis[/name_m], [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hart[/name_m], and [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Kit[/name_m] are all beautiful options.
Maybe you would like…
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Adair[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Alexis[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]August[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Avery[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Aubrey[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Baylor[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Blair[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Blake[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Campbell[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Casey[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Clarke[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Delaney[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Darcy[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Drew[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Elliot[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Emery[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ever[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Finley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Harley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Harper[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hollis[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Indy[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Jules[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Jesse[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Luca[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Lennox[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Lux[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Lyric[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Marlowe[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Merrit[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Marley[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Micah[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]North[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Navy[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Oakley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Phoenix[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Presley[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Quinn[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Reese[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sailor[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Scout[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Sawyer[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Shiloh[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Skyler[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sage[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Stevie[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Tatum[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Taylor[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]True[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Winter[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Wilder[/name_m]
I’m so sorry for your loss
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hart[/name_m] and [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ellis[/name_m] are lovely.
I’d suggest:
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Adair[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Amory[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]True[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sasha[/name_f]
I’m so sorry for your loss 
I think [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] is a gorgeous choice! You’ve had lots of lovely suggestions so count any repeats as me being in agreement with the berries
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Marlowe[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Winslet[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Winslow[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Harlow[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Oakley[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Quinn[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Blaire[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Penrose[/name_m]
[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps
Sorry to hear this.
I like [name_m]Ellis[/name_m], and the dear [name_m]Hart[/name_m] and [name_m]Kit[/name_m].
I apologize in advance if this is insensitive, but could you tell me the day he or she died and/or the due date? This will help me. Thank you!
One name that stands out to me so far is “Agny,” which I’ve seen for both male and female children. It means both “pure” and “fire,” which I think is perfect for a short but vibrant life. Also the patronage would be the Virgin Mary, whether you’re religious or not.
Agny Peregrine
Agny Mercy
Agny Innocente
Agny Linden
Agny Evergreen
Agny Willow
Agny Lucca
Agny Juno
Agny Winter
Agny Shiloh
Agny Quinn
Agny Hollis
Agny Hillaire
Agny Harmony
Laurie Agny
EDIT: (I might keep updating this) I saw a name “Agny Laurie Olsen” (any of those names you could probably use). She went by “Lillemor,” which means “little mother” in Nordic. But a gender neutral version is “Lillebo,” meaning “little nest”. Also, “Agny Lucca” means “Pure fire, bringer of light.”
Agny Lillebo
Lillebo Agny
Agny Hollis Olsen
Agny Lillebo Olsen
Hollis Agny Olsen
Olsen Laurie Agny
Hollis Laurie Agny
[name_f]My[/name_f] condolences, so sorry for your loss,
I like [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Blue[/name_f] and [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Page[/name_f]
I love [name_m]Hart[/name_m] from your list as even though it was a short life they were loved every minute of it. I know the name meaning is different but I can’t help making the love connection anyway.
Another you may like is [name_m]Pax[/name_m] meaning [name_m]Peace[/name_m].
2 Likes
I am so sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking.
I am so happy that you are naming your baby. I really like [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sloane[/name_f], [name_f]Blue[/name_f], [name_f]Scotland[/name_f].
Other suggestions:
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Cove[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]River[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Storm[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Arcadia[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Rain[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Gale[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Brookes[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Ember[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Love[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]True[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sage[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Halo[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Forever[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Justice[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Day[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Quinn[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Echo[/name_f] (May your love echo through to the heavens so little [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] knows how much they are loved every day.)
Im so very sorry
Im so sorry for you facing this. No one truly knows the pain of infertily unless one faces it. I have been dealing with this for the last 4 years, and being able to name someone, even tho in the eyes of the world they dont exist, but youre still grieving someone. With no face and placing a name to them is a way to grieve and let them go. I have not dealt with a miscarriage through my infertily journey. But i do have an understanding of the hurt and pain.
Name Meaning
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Emrys[/name_m] (imortal)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Avery[/name_f] (Ruler)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Angel[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Phoenix[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Ash[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]August[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Briar[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Caelan[/name_m] (pure)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Emory[/name_m] (Brave; Powerful)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Kai[/name_m] (Ocean)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Marlow[/name_m] (Driftwood)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Micah[/name_m] (Godlike)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Sterling[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Tiernan[/name_m] (Lord)
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Wynter[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Sage[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_f]Journey[/name_f]
[name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Sky[/name_m]
I hope this helps in some way. If you need to talk, you can DM me. Good luck, hon!
1 Like
I love that you’re choosing to name your child despite your loss [name_f][/name_f] we did too. I second all the votes for [name_m]Hart[/name_m] in the middle spot. I will add [name_m]Autry[/name_m].
So sorry for your loss. I love [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Beck[/name_m] or [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Hart[/name_m]. I also liked the suggestion above of [name_m]Rowan[/name_m] [name_m]Adair[/name_m].