Naming our second

We (English/[name_m]German[/name_m] family) are expecting our second child and have been swapping our lists. I love the name [name_f]Lotus[/name_f], [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and [name_f]Lotus[/name_f] seem very well matched to me. OH isn’t into [name_f]Lotus[/name_f] because he thinks people will have certain associations with this name. His prefered name is [name_f]Mimi[/name_f] which I like but not as a fullname that carries through to adulthood.

So:
q1. What do you think of when you hear the name [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]? [name_f]Do[/name_f] you think it works as a name?
q2. What fullnames work with [name_f]Mimi[/name_f] and go with [name_f]Zelda[/name_f]? ([name_f]Margaret[/name_f], [name_f]Mary[/name_f] and [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] don’t cut it for me.)

(My naming style is in my signature. My OH’s top 5 is: [name_f]Mimi[/name_f], [name_f]Nena[/name_f], Magalie, [name_f]Flora[/name_f], [name_f]Ramona[/name_f].)

Thank you Berries!

I am not a fan of [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]. It feels pornographic to me (no idea why).

Full names for [name_f]Mimi[/name_f]:

[name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f]
[name_f]Mirabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Millicent[/name_f]
[name_f]Alma[/name_f]
[name_f]Moira[/name_f]
[name_f]Amalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Mariska[/name_f]
[name_f]Maureen[/name_f]
[name_f]Camille[/name_f]

[name_f]Lotus[/name_f] I think is very pretty, but to me sounds more like a middle name! Like from your list for full names for [name_f]Mimi[/name_f], [name_f]Margaret[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]! Here’s a little list!

[name_f]Jemima[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Mina[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Mirena[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Amina[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Camilla[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Camellia[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamia[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamara[/name_f] [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps! :slight_smile:

I don’t love [name_f]Lotus[/name_f]. I like the ideas of [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and [name_f]Miriam[/name_f] ‘[name_f]Mimi[/name_f]’; [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and [name_f]Ramona[/name_f]; [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and [name_f]Esperanza[/name_f]…

[name_f]Lotus[/name_f] is not my favorite either, but I think it works with [name_f]Zelda[/name_f]. [name_f]Margo[/name_f]/[name_f]Margot[/name_f] is my top choice for you and you could use [name_f]Mimi[/name_f] as a nn-- I really like [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and [name_f]Margot[/name_f]. I really like the suggestion of [name_f]Miriam[/name_f].

Some other possibilities:

[name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and

[name_f]Agnes[/name_f]
[name_f]Avis[/name_f]
[name_f]Corinne[/name_f]
[name_f]Edith[/name_f]
[name_f]Florence[/name_f]
[name_f]Garnet[/name_f]
[name_f]Gloria[/name_f]
[name_f]Hester[/name_f]
[name_f]Imogen[/name_f]
[name_f]Indira[/name_f]
[name_f]Ingrid[/name_f]
[name_f]Irene[/name_f]
[name_f]Judith[/name_f]
[name_f]Muriel[/name_f]
[name_f]Octavia[/name_f]
[name_f]Ophelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Persis[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Sapphire[/name_f]
[name_f]Sybil[/name_f]
[name_m]Tallis[/name_m]
[name_f]Tamsin[/name_f]
[name_f]Thora[/name_f]
[name_f]Valerie[/name_f]
[name_f]Vanessa[/name_f]
[name_f]Winifred[/name_f]
[name_f]Winona[/name_f]

Thank you @boyandgirl and @hannahcarmeen for:
[name_f]Mirabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Amalia[/name_f] - I’ve added [name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Jemima[/name_f] - I like how it’s very easy to see where the nn [name_f]Mimi[/name_f] comes from

@emsky - my OH completely agrees with you on [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and [name_f]Miriam[/name_f]. I really dislike the pronunciation
in [name_m]German[/name_m] though ([name_f]Miri[/name_f] -yum)

@davisellu -I agree [name_f]Margot[/name_f] looks good next to [name_f]Zelda[/name_f]. But the name always make me sad knowing
it was [name_f]Anne[/name_f] [name_m]Frank[/name_m]’s sister’s name. So I can’t use it and feel happy.

It’s really interesting to see the opinion on [name_f]Lotus[/name_f] differs. Any more suggestions and opinions?

I feel like [name_f]Lotus[/name_f] would be nicer as a middle name, not sure I can imagine a 40 year old called [name_f]Lotus[/name_f], you know? I love [name_f]Flora[/name_f], have you considered [name_f]Florence[/name_f]? I think that would be beautiful and so many nickname opportunities!

A couple of other suggestions:

[name_f]Coralie[/name_f]
[name_f]Bryony[/name_f]/[name_f]Briony[/name_f]
[name_f]Marguerite[/name_f] ([name_f]Mimi[/name_f] for short?)
[name_f]Emilia[/name_f] (another full name for [name_f]Mimi[/name_f])
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Fern[/name_f]
[name_f]Persephone[/name_f]

Good luck! :slight_smile:

I don’t care for lotus as its not my style. I love [name_f]Zelda[/name_f] and think she pairs really well with [name_f]Ramona[/name_f], [name_f]Mimi[/name_f], [name_f]Flora[/name_f], and [name_f]Rosemary[/name_f].

For [name_f]Mimi[/name_f]
[name_f]Emilia[/name_f] or [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Mina[/name_f]
[name_f]Mira[/name_f]
[name_f]Milena[/name_f]
[name_f]Camille[/name_f] or [name_f]Camilla[/name_f]
[name_f]Romilly[/name_f]
[name_u]Bellamy[/name_u]
[name_f]Miranda[/name_f]

[name_f]Lotus[/name_f] makes me think of exotic dancers and Japanes Geisha girls.

With [name_f]Zelda[/name_f], I like:

[name_f]Celeste[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Clover[/name_f]
[name_f]Avalon[/name_f]
[name_u]Vivian[/name_u]

To get to the nickname [name_f]Mimi[/name_f], I like:

[name_f]Milla[/name_f]
Mishra
[name_f]Mira[/name_f]
,