Nano novel help

Doing NaNo, Need a name for a late 20s-early 30 year old married mom of a few kids. One of which is gender- creative/noncoforming. Something like [name_f]Greta[/name_f] or something similar. She’s spunky and fights for her kids. Lives in the northern US but might be moving to the the south. [name_m]Don[/name_m]'t have a last name yet. Help with Hubby’s name. Thinking [name_m]Jax[/name_m] or [name_u]Flynn[/name_u] or maybe [name_u]Colby[/name_u]( but [name_u]Flynn[/name_u] is a name i adore and on my future kids).
Writing without names is really hard but I do get more words. They have at least 2 kids maybe 3.

Exactly how many names do you need? I know you need main character and hubby, but do you need kids names too?

Mom: [name_f]Carrie[/name_f], [name_f]Jocelyn[/name_f], [name_f]Saskia[/name_f], [name_f]Louisa[/name_f], [name_f]Cady[/name_f], [name_f]Jade[/name_f], [name_u]Joyce[/name_u]
Hubby: [name_m]Jax[/name_m], [name_m]Dex[/name_m], [name_m]Ryder[/name_m], [name_u]Brett[/name_u], [name_m]Zane[/name_m], [name_m]Fox[/name_m]
Kids: [name_u]Morgan[/name_u], [name_m]Paul[/name_m], [name_f]Alice[/name_f], [name_u]Joss[/name_u], [name_u]Harper[/name_u], [name_f]Kinsey[/name_f], [name_u]Finley[/name_u], [name_u]Sage[/name_u], [name_u]Reese[/name_u], [name_u]Quinn[/name_u]