Narrowing down Baby #4's name

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there! [name_u]New[/name_u] to Nameberry Forums so sorry about formatting.

I am looking for advice on naming our 4th baby, second son. I have about 6 weeks left! He is joining siblings:

[name_f]Rosalia[/name_f] (Rosie), [name_f]Faustina[/name_f] (Fia), and [name_m]Ignatius[/name_m] (Iggy)

We are nickname people and use them interchangeably with their full first names. So they hear both equally. We are Catholic so these names were chosen for specific saints and meanings. I am pretty picky and like more unique names, so if something seems to be getting popular, it makes me wary.

What names seem nice with our sibset, meanings, middle name combinations? [name_u]Ive[/name_u] pretty much exhausted all the names scouring lists and this is what we agree on (RIP to all the vetoed names). I am just trying to make sense of my thoughts and look at middle name combos.

Our agreed on first name list (in no particular order:

[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] (Milo)
[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] (Gus or Auggie)
[name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] (Tad or Taddy)

Lesser likes:
[name_m]Bastian[/name_m] (Bash)
[name_m]Bosco[/name_m] (Bo)

Middle name options (in no particular order):
[name_u]Jude[/name_u], [name_u]John[/name_u], [name_m]Peter[/name_m], [name_u]Blaise[/name_u], [name_u]Milo[/name_u], [name_m]Benedict[/name_m], [name_m]Alexander[/name_m], [name_u]Augustine[/name_u], [name_m]Benedict[/name_m]

Considerations on the names/nicknames:

Summary

[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] nn [name_u]Milo[/name_u]: my husband had a beloved dog growing up named [name_u]Max[/name_u] that died while we were dating, so we do not want to use [name_u]Max[/name_u] as a nn. We love St. [name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] [name_m]Kolbe[/name_m]. [name_u]Milo[/name_u] is an anglicanized version given to an old irish name Maolmhuire meaning “Sevant of the [name_u]Blessed[/name_u] Virgin Mary.” The meaning of [name_u]Milo[/name_u] is soldier and [name_m]Kolbe[/name_m] was a soldier for [name_f]Mary[/name_f] aince he started the Militia of the [name_f]Immaculata[/name_f]. So essentially, this name and nickname combination has a very special meaning. I am hesitant because [name_u]Milo[/name_u] is fast rising. And isnt the most obvious nickname, like [name_u]Max[/name_u] is, but it has been used before.
[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] nn [name_u]Gus[/name_u] or [name_m]Auggie[/name_m]: my husbands favorite. He loves Auggie/Auggy. But i worry [name_m]Auggie[/name_m] and [name_u]Iggy[/name_u] are just waaaay too similar. [name_u]Ive[/name_u] caught myself feeling embarrassed in oubkic imagining calling my son [name_u]Iggy[/name_u] to come to me and then having to follow it up with “Auggie.” Its just too much. [name_u]Gus[/name_u] isnt my husband’s favorite, and im not sure about it. Also, [name_u]August[/name_u] is fast rising and many seem to be using [name_u]Gus[/name_u] as a nickname. And im not in love with [name_u]Gus[/name_u]. But we both love St. [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] and his conversion.
[name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] nn [name_m]Tad[/name_m] or [name_m]Taddy[/name_m]: when I first heard [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] I thought it would be the one for my next baby before i found out I was pregnant. [name_f]My[/name_f] husband wasnt sure, but now he likes it and now im not sure! I do like it, but I liked [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] with it, and my husband did not at all. He liked [name_m]Tad[/name_m]. I think [name_m]Taddy[/name_m] is sweet for when he is little. I pove St. [name_u]Jude[/name_u] [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u], patron of impossible causes. [name_u]Ive[/name_u] had a lot of health issues and him as a patron would be special.
[name_m]Bastian[/name_m] nn Bash: I think this name is just so cool, and my husband really likes it. Though I dont have a very special connection to St. [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]. I dont like that [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is super popular now. And when I discussed baby names with extended family (probably shouldn’t have) [name_m]Bastian[/name_m] was hated and they though of bastard and disliked the name. It was a turn off.
[name_m]Bosco[/name_m] nn [name_u]Bo[/name_u]: love this for St. [name_u]John[/name_u] [name_m]Bosco[/name_m]. Husband is on the fence but loves [name_u]Bo[/name_u] (we live in the south in the US). Cute and unique but maybe too out there? I love it though.
Bonus: [name_m]Benedict[/name_m] nn ?: my husband loves [name_m]Benedict[/name_m] almost as much as [name_u]Augustine[/name_u]. But i dont like [name_m]Ben[/name_m]. To me, its overused and reminds me of the popular [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] who we know many of. [name_m]Benny[/name_m] would get shortened to [name_m]Benny[/name_m]. [name_u]Bennett[/name_u] is meh for me. Bec/Bex as compromise is ok. I just cant find a way to like it.

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I think [name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] works the best! Its very sweet and is very elegant like his siblings names! Youre other kids names are unique and beautiful and I think it fits perfectly! Second fav is [name_u]Augustine[/name_u]!

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Maybe [name_m]Benedict[/name_m] nn [name_m]Ned[/name_m]? So cute!! And definitely rare!!

[name_m]Just[/name_m] throwing out [name_m]Tino[/name_m] as a nn for [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] Maybe a stretch…

i think [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] works really well for you. [name_m]Tad[/name_m] is super cool! [name_m]Bosco[/name_m] is unique but maybe not as “big” as your other kids names!

All of your options are great and I really enjoyed reading the meanings.

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Full names for current kiddos for middle name suggestions:
[name_f]Rosalia[/name_f] [name_u]Celeste[/name_u], [name_f]Faustina[/name_f] [name_f]Cora[/name_f], [name_m]Ignatius[/name_m] [name_m]Andrew[/name_m]. [name_u]Celeste[/name_u] and [name_m]Andrew[/name_m] are family names. Our last name sounds like [name_f]Marigold[/name_f].

[name_u]Love[/name_u] your style!

Thoughts on your current names:
[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] (Milo) – I love [name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] with your set, but I think it will be very hard to avoid [name_u]Max[/name_u] unless you pretty much exclusively call him [name_u]Milo[/name_u].
[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] (Gus, Auggie) – I do think [name_u]Iggy[/name_u] and [name_m]Auggie[/name_m] are a bit much, and it doesn’t sound like either of you love [name_u]Gus[/name_u]. I like this best as a middle name for you.
[name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] (Tad, Taddy) – This is my favorite with your children and taking other considerations into account. And [name_m]Taddy[/name_m] is too cute!
[name_m]Bastian[/name_m] (Bash) – [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is quite popular though it seems to be pretty variable by region. Is it popular in your state particularly? Hard to hear bad reviews from your family, too.
[name_m]Bosco[/name_m] (Bo) – Not too out there! I know of one who wears it well, and [name_u]Bo[/name_u] makes it even more approachable.
[name_m]Benedict[/name_m] – [name_u]Love[/name_u] the previous nn suggestion of [name_m]Ned[/name_m]! Doesn’t sound like you’re in love with it, though.

In order of preference for you:
[name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_u]Augustine[/name_u], [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_u]Milo[/name_u]
[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] [name_m]Peter[/name_m]
[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] [name_u]Milo[/name_u], [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] [name_u]Jude[/name_u] (nn AJ?)
[name_m]Bastian[/name_m] [name_m]Peter[/name_m]
[name_m]Bosco[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m]
[name_m]Benedict[/name_m] [name_u]Milo[/name_u], [name_m]Benedict[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] (nn [name_m]Bax[/name_m], Bash?)

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[name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] - I think [name_u]Milo[/name_u] works but you can’t rule out him choosing to be a [name_u]Max[/name_u] later on, would that be difficult for your husband?

[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] - feels way too similar to both [name_u]Iggy[/name_u] and [name_f]Faustina[/name_f], I’m afraid

[name_m]Bastian[/name_m] - I love Bash for [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] so I’m quite keen on this, but if the family dislike bothers you that might be difficult to live with

[name_m]Bosco[/name_m] - I do like this, but I’m not sure it fits the best with your other names

[name_m]Benedict[/name_m] - works with the sibs but yeah, likely to get Ben/Benny at some point

Which leaves…

[name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u]! I really think this one is perfect for you. The way you felt about it before expecting, the personal meaning…it’s ideal and fits so well with your other names. I also think you could just see what comes naturally with the nicknames. Maybe he’ll be a Tad/Taddy for a bit then [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] later, or maybe both interchangeably. They’re both great options!

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This is so helpful! Thank you for your thoughts ans suggestions! I really like [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u], and I like the middle name pairings [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] or [name_u]Milo[/name_u] you suggested.

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Thank you! I love the feedback. I didnt even think of how [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] and [name_f]Faustina[/name_f] actually look ans sound very similar. And yes, Auggie/Iggy is too much.

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Your kids’ have gorgeous names :heart:

[name_f]My[/name_f] favourite of your list is Thaddeus!!

[name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_u]Blaise[/name_u], [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_u]Jude[/name_u] and [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_u]Milo[/name_u] are my top combos!

[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] [name_u]Blaise[/name_u] and [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] [name_u]Jude[/name_u] are wonderful too, along with [name_m]Maximillian[/name_m] [name_m]Peter[/name_m] and [name_m]Maximillian[/name_m] [name_u]Blaise[/name_u]!

[name_m]Bosco[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] and [name_m]Bastian[/name_m] [name_u]Milo[/name_u] are great too!

[name_m]Maximillian[/name_m] ‘Milo’ is great!! Distinctive and charming.

[name_u]Augustine[/name_u] ‘Gus’ is cool, but [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] could be [name_u]Autry[/name_u], [name_u]Ozzie[/name_u], [name_m]Tino[/name_m]?

[name_m]Benedict[/name_m] could have the nicknames… [name_m]Ned[/name_m], [name_u]Bo[/name_u] (Benedict Milo), [name_u]Nico[/name_u]?

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So happy to see [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u], this is such an underused gem of a name in my opinion. I think [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] is such a strong name that has great nickname options and I think would fit in perfectly with his siblings. [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m], [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_m]Peter[/name_m], [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u] [name_u]John[/name_u] all sound awesome to me!

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Thank you! Those are creative nicknames, I will run them past my husband!

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Thank you! Its one we love too! I love [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] as well!

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I think [name_m]Maximilian[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u] sounds amazing, and it would nod to St. [name_u]Jude[/name_u] [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u], too. [name_u]Milo[/name_u] is an adorable nn. [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] [name_u]Jude[/name_u] is a close second for me. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Thank you!

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You children have lovely names. Lots of great choices for your next. I am Catholic also and understand the importance of your connection to [name_u]Saint[/name_u] names. [name_f]My[/name_f] favorite is [name_u]Thaddeus[/name_u]. It is so handsome and I like your nickname choices [name_m]Tad[/name_m]. [name_f]My[/name_f] second choice would be [name_m]Maximilian[/name_m], [name_u]Milo[/name_u] is sweet and I don’t think it’s too popular at least not where I live. I do feel [name_u]Augustine[/name_u] nn [name_m]Auggie[/name_m] is way too close to [name_u]Iggy[/name_u].

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Thank you I love it too!

Thank you!

Thank you! We love it too