Narrowing down our final names (Cassian, Desmond, Oliver...)

After my husband decided he didn’t like [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] anymore and I realized the whole [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]/[name_f]Theodora[/name_f] middle name problem would bother me too much, we are stuck finding a name we like again.

My husband is IN [name_f]LOVE[/name_f] with [name_m]Nicholas[/name_m] and came up with [name_m]Nicholas[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m], but I’m not sure if its the right one.

Here is our new list with names all approved by my husband.

[name_m]Cassian[/name_m]
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_m]Harrison[/name_m]
[name_m]Caspian[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]

Middles:
[name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
[name_m]Truman[/name_m]

These are pretty much our final names so we don’t need anymore suggestions, but if anyone has any combos or any names we should eliminate, that would be greatly appreciated.

I like all of your first names in varying degrees (that is a very rare event for me :)). I love [name_m]Oliver[/name_m] and [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] for their depth and history and [name_m]Caspian[/name_m] and [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] for their literary connections. [name_m]Nicholas[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] is a fine combo but I think the other names on your list are more interesting.

Combo Suggestions

[name_m]Oliver[/name_m] [name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m] [name_m]Truman[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Caspian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Cassian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_m]Truman[/name_m]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

[name_m]Nicholas[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] is a cute name! That would be your best bet. :slight_smile:

[name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m], [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_m]Truman[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u],
[name_m]Harrison[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_m]Harrison[/name_m] [name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
[name_m]Caspian[/name_m] [name_u]Blaise[/name_u]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m] [name_m]Marshall[/name_m]

I love your list! In fact, my two sons are [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] and [name_m]Conrad[/name_m]. I really like [name_m]Caspian[/name_m] and [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] as well.
Perhaps:
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m] [name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Caspian[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]

Good luck!

[name_m]Nicholas[/name_m] is a solid choice. [name_m]Desmond[/name_m], [name_m]Bennett[/name_m], [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], [name_m]Harrison[/name_m] and especially [name_m]Oliver[/name_m] are great too.

I really don’t like [name_m]Cassian[/name_m], [name_m]Conrad[/name_m] or [name_m]Caspian[/name_m]. [name_m]Cassian[/name_m] just screams “[name_f]Cassie[/name_f]” and these all sound kind of precious & pretentious.

[name_m]Marshall[/name_m], [name_m]Arthur[/name_m], and [name_u]James[/name_u] are good middle names, but [name_u]Blaise[/name_u] and [name_m]Truman[/name_m] aren’t nearly as good. [name_u]Blaise[/name_u] is, like [name_m]Cassian[/name_m] and [name_m]Caspian[/name_m], a bit precious for a non-fictional human being. If you really want one of these, make it a middle name.

Thanks for the ideas so far I really love all of them, it’s going to be hard to pick a name since there’s so many to choose from.

My husband has also started liking [name_m]Zachary[/name_m] so that might be going on our list as well.

If anyone has any more thoughts that would be very helpful.

Somebody suggested [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] which I actually love, even though [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] isn’t really my style.

My top 5:
[name_m]Harrison[/name_m] - [name_m]Harrison[/name_m] is actually really cute! [name_m]Harry[/name_m] as a nn? I like [name_m]Harrison[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u].
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m] - [name_m]Arthur[/name_m] as a mn?
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] - I think I like [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] the best with your other kids.
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]

We finally narrowed it down to an even smaller list

[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]

I think once we get it down to two or three we will be set with a boy name. Now all we need to do is come up with a name if this baby turns out to be a girl.

Top Three

[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]

Eliminate these two for being too similar in sound to [name_u]Easton[/name_u].

[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]

None of them are really my style. If you pronounce [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_u]Dash[/name_u]-e-el then that would be my pick. Otherwise I would pick [name_m]Bennett[/name_m].

[name_m]Conrad[/name_m], [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m], and [name_m]Desmond[/name_m] are my favorites in that order. All great names though, good luck! =]

[name_m]Conrad[/name_m] [name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u]
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m]

Names I love:
[name_m]Cassian[/name_m]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] ([name_f]Love[/name_f] the nickname Bast :slight_smile: )
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
[name_m]Caspian[/name_m] ([name_f]One[/name_f] of my all time favorite names)
[name_m]Arthur[/name_m] and [name_u]James[/name_u] for middle names are my favorites.

([name_m]Oliver[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m], [name_m]Cassian[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_m]Caspian[/name_m] [name_m]Arthur[/name_m])

Names I don’t:
[name_m]Desmond[/name_m]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_m]Dashiell[/name_m] ([name_m]Don[/name_m]'t understand the pull of this name sorry)
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_m]Harrison[/name_m]
[name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_u]Blaise[/name_u] (on the fence with [name_u]Blaise[/name_u], I like it but I don’t think it really goes with anything)
[name_m]Truman[/name_m]