Thanks all. You don’t think it sounds a bit [name_f]Marvel[/name_f] comics baddie - like [name_u]Lex[/name_u] [name_m]Luther[/name_m]? That was my initial thought.
I personally love alliteration. I’m an H H and have never gotten any comment other than my name sounds like a movie star. So only positive comments in my books. I didn’t go [name_u]Lex[/name_u] [name_m]Luther[/name_m] at all - [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] Lawley (for example) doesn’t give me any weird associations. If you love it, use it!
I’ll be the sole dissenter and say an L first name with a double L last name is a bit much. I think [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] Lombardi is fine and even catchy, but [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] Lolardi is just too many Ls. Plus, some languages don’t have the L sound, so people with certain accents or speech impediments may find “[name_m]Lucian[/name_m] Lawley” painfully unpronounceable.
That said, I don’t think it’s that big of a deal. If you’re sold on [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] and you both love the name, go for it. If you’re between [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] and another name you like equally, it could be a tiebreaker, but otherwise it’s fine.
My partner is a [name_m]Matt[/name_m] Mc. I love his name!
I think people are too concerned about names and lastnames sometimes. Anyways, by repeating it (which will happen a lot), it will flow perfectly well for you, your son and your family.
Have you ever heard: “What? Charlie Chaplin / Janet Jackson / John [name_m]Lenn[/name_m]on / Benjamin Franklin, oh my god, the name and lastname don’t flow together”. Probably never
I think [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] “Lawley” or “Loxley” or the like sounds just fine. The endings of the names is usually where I get hung up with repetition and [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] has a different sound at the end than “Lawley” or “Loxley,” so you’re good. I don’t think it sounds particularly [name_f]Marvel[/name_f] villain-esque. lol I think it sounds more along the lines of [name_f]Jane[/name_f] [name_u]Austen[/name_u] hero and I mean that in a good way. It sounds handsome, sophisticated. =]
I like it. I don’t see the slightest issue if it sounds good to you two. I come from a family with a lot of M’s in the family. [name_f]Mercedes[/name_f], [name_m]Massimo[/name_m], [name_f]Marina[/name_f], [name_m]Mauricio[/name_m], etc. and a big M Italian last name. I have never for a second stopped and said, wow, my dad/aunt/uncle/cousin’s name is weird, with so many M’s. I think they sound awesome, and I would happily pick something like [name_f]Minerva[/name_f] for a daughter if I had a child and kept my last name.
My boyfriend likewise is A + A, and the last name almost ends in an A as well. Again, it has never even come close to being on the radar as a problem.
It being a problem for people who can’t pronounce L’s properly seems like a non-issue to me.
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m] is nice and if your last name sounds like the examples then I think it actually sounds very handsome. I’d go for it, personally, without a doubt.
As others have said, it is a lot of L but not totally over the top, so I say use it if you don’t like anything else as much. Maybe have a backup to bring to the hospital just in case? [name_m]Julian[/name_m] and [name_m]Felix[/name_m] have a similar vibe to me.
I think it’s fine. Alliteration is only weird when the names are too close or rhymey ([name_m]Peter[/name_m] [name_u]Parker[/name_u], [name_u]Madison[/name_u] McGinty), if the sounds are different enough I see no problem about it. I even know a girl whose initials are AAAA
It doesn’t really matter what his real names are, because we know him as “[name_u]Charlie[/name_u] [name_m]Chaplin[/name_m]” and nobody seems chocked or bothered.
[name_m]Lucian[/name_m] Lawley, even though there are 3 L, is definitely not a problem for me. I compare [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] Lawley to [name_f]Janet[/name_f] [name_m]Jackson[/name_m], and not to [name_m]Lowell[/name_m] [name_u]Ellery[/name_u]
It’s definitely a matter of taste
Wow, thanks all for the very helpful opinions. It’s so hard to make a decision like this and I’m aware that [name_m]Lucian[/name_m] is a latecomer to this game (and also on the rise, so we have to be aware of the “trendy factor”). I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] [name_m]Felix[/name_m] but the husband can’t get over cat connotations. And to those who have said it sounds “handsome” or like a [name_f]Jane[/name_f] [name_u]Austen[/name_u] hero - sounds good to me…
Watch this space. (we’re in trouble if we have a girl - still no names, might try the girls’ names forum!)