Need help for our first daughter's name!

My husband and I are finally expecting our first girl (after 3 boys)! We struggled a LOT with our boy names, but our sweet baby girl will have 3 awesome big brothers: [name_m]Haddon[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m] [name_u]James[/name_u] (dad wants to call him [name_u]Theo[/name_u] EVENTUALLY, but everyone calls him [name_u]Teddy[/name_u] right now), and [name_m]Judah[/name_m] [name_u]Michael[/name_u] (occasionally [name_u]Jude[/name_u] but rarely).

He really likes the name [name_u]Ruby[/name_u] for a girl, but I prefer [name_f]Lucy[/name_f]. We both kind of like [name_f]Madeleine[/name_f], [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u], and [name_f]Emily[/name_f], but only kind of. (Also my god-daughter’s name is [name_f]Emma[/name_f], and [name_f]Emily[/name_f] cuts it a little close for my liking.) We haven’t yet found a name we [name_u]LOVE[/name_u].

Obviously, we have a fairly traditional selection of names (although I’m hearing now that [name_m]Judah[/name_m] is considered “hip” these days :D). Our last name is a common Japanese surname: Tanaka, and since we’ve picked fairly classic-sounding, relatively uncommon names for the boys, we’d like to continue that with this girl!

Names we already have thrown out for good: [name_f]Charlotte[/name_f], [name_f]Ava[/name_f], [name_f]Lily[/name_f], [name_f]Caroline[/name_f], [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f], [name_f]Audrey[/name_f], [name_f]Sophia[/name_f]/[name_f]Sophie[/name_f], [name_f]Gabrielle[/name_f], [name_f]Ella[/name_f].
Names we can’t consider for other reasons: [name_f]Mabel[/name_f] (niece’s name is [name_f]Maple[/name_f]), [name_f]Astrid[/name_f] (dog’s name), [name_f]Leah[/name_f], [name_f]Susannah[/name_f], [name_f]Rachel[/name_f], [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Hannah[/name_f], [name_f]Grace[/name_f], [name_f]Emma[/name_f], [name_f]Louise[/name_f].

(Have I mentioned how picky he is/we are? And how impossible this task has been for us?)

What about…
[name_f]Antonia[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Anneliese[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Adriana[/name_f] -[name_f]Adrienne[/name_f]
[name_f]Amedea[/name_f]
[name_f]Anselma[/name_f]
[name_u]Vivian[/name_u]-[name_f]Vivianne[/name_f]-[name_f]Vivienne[/name_f]
[name_u]Marion[/name_u]
[name_f]Henrietta[/name_f]
[name_f]Helena[/name_f]
[name_f]Daniella[/name_f]
[name_f]Marcella[/name_f]
[name_f]Evangeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Odette[/name_f]
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Odelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Louise[/name_f]
[name_f]Josephine[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Victoria[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Jane[/name_f]
[name_f]Margaret[/name_f]
[name_f]Roberta[/name_f]
Raphaella
[name_f]Wilhelmina[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosamund[/name_f]
[name_f]Seraphina[/name_f]
[name_f]Theresa[/name_f]
[name_f]Clementine[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]
[name_f]Domenica[/name_f]

This is all I can think of. I hope it helps :slight_smile: Good luck !

There’s also a NameBerry list that may help you:

I really like the suggestion of [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]. What about:

[name_f]Claire[/name_f]/[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Esme[/name_f]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]May[/name_f]/[name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]

I really like the suggestion of [name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]. What about:

[name_f]Claire[/name_f]/[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Esme[/name_f]
[name_f]Adele[/name_f]
[name_f]Adelaide[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]May[/name_f]/[name_f]Mae[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadie[/name_f]

I [name_u]Love[/name_u] [name_f]Madeleine[/name_f]!

[name_f]Clara[/name_f]/[name_f]Claire[/name_f]/[name_f]Clarisse[/name_f]
[name_f]Camilla[/name_f] or [name_f]Camille[/name_f] ([name_f]Callie[/name_f]/[name_f]Calla[/name_f]/[name_f]Mila[/name_f]/[name_f]Millie[/name_f])
[name_f]Veronica[/name_f] ([name_f]Vera[/name_f])
[name_f]Julianna[/name_f] or [name_f]Julia[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalie[/name_f] ([name_u]Tali[/name_u])
[name_f]Coralie[/name_f] ([name_f]Cora[/name_f])
[name_f]Elise[/name_f] or [name_f]Elysia[/name_f]
[name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Annalise[/name_f] ([name_f]Anna[/name_f])
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f] ([name_f]Tilly[/name_f], [name_u]Mattie[/name_u])
[name_f]Cecilia[/name_f] ([name_f]Celia[/name_f], [name_f]CeCe[/name_f])
[name_f]Lillian[/name_f] ([name_f]Lila[/name_f])
[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]
[name_f]Marguerite[/name_f] ([name_f]Maggie[/name_f])
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f] ([name_f]Rosie[/name_f])
[name_f]Louisa[/name_f] ([name_u]Lou[/name_u])
[name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f] ([name_f]Gwen[/name_f])
[name_f]Vivienne[/name_f] ([name_f]Vivi[/name_f])
[name_f]Josephine[/name_f] ([name_u]Josie[/name_u])
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f] ([name_f]Evie[/name_f], [name_f]Neve[/name_f])
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Cordelia[/name_f] ([name_f]Cora[/name_f])

I like [name_u]Ruby[/name_u]!

From your front runners, I like [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] best with your sibset-- it fits the traditional vibe really well. [name_f]Alice[/name_f] or [name_f]Eve[/name_f] would also be great choices with your last name. I’d stay away from girl’s names ending in A to avoid rhyming with your last name.

Some other possibilities:

[name_m]Samuel[/name_m]/[name_u]Sam[/name_u], [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]/[name_u]Theo[/name_u], [name_m]Judah[/name_m]/[name_u]Jude[/name_u], and

[name_f]Abigail[/name_f]
[name_f]Agnes[/name_f]
[name_f]Annabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Camille[/name_f]
[name_f]Catherine[/name_f]/[name_f]Katherine[/name_f]
[name_f]Claire[/name_f]
[name_f]Edith[/name_f]
[name_f]Ellen[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Esther[/name_f]
[name_f]Frances[/name_f]
[name_f]Genevieve[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwendolen[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Helen[/name_f]
[name_f]Irene[/name_f]
[name_f]Laurel[/name_f]
[name_f]Mary[/name_f]
[name_f]Margaret[/name_f]
[name_f]Margot[/name_f]
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f]
[name_f]Muriel[/name_f]
[name_f]Naomi[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Olivia[/name_f]
[name_f]Pauline[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalind[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f]
[name_f]Valerie[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f]

[name_f]Naomi[/name_f] was our first pick, but when you google it some…less-than-appropriate stuff starts popping up! Hahaha.

I really like many names suggested, but Dad over here does not. [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f] and [name_f]Maisy[/name_f]/[name_f]Maisie[/name_f] have made it on our to-consider list. [name_f]Lucy[/name_f] is still my top choice, dad won’t budge on [name_u]Ruby[/name_u], and [name_f]Madeline[/name_f] seems like our only middle ground. Let’s hope we can decide on something we love before she makes her appearance!