Need Help!!!

I am soon due with a boy… I have names chosen but, have no idea what one! If you have any other ideas different then my own…PLEASE post also, please give honest opinion on names below. Thanks!!!
[name_m]Declan[/name_m]
[name_u]Gray[/name_u]
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m]
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]
[name_u]Finn[/name_u]
[name_u]Embry[/name_u]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]

[name_m]Declan[/name_m] - nms, but nice name
[name_u]Gray[/name_u] - don’t like
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m] - not my favorite
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m] - see [name_m]Declan[/name_m]
[name_u]Finn[/name_u] - [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] (this is my favorite from your list)
[name_u]Embry[/name_u] - [name_u]LOVE[/name_u]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m] - [name_u]LOVE[/name_u]

[name_m]How[/name_m] about [name_u]Finn[/name_u] [name_m]Ezra[/name_m] or [name_u]Embry[/name_u] [name_u]Finn[/name_u]?

[name_m]Declan[/name_m]: I like it but its not a favourite of mine.
[name_u]Gray[/name_u]: I like this better in the middle spot!
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m]: Not my style.
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]: [name_u]Love[/name_u] it, and the nickname [name_u]Beck[/name_u] is so awesome.
[name_u]Finn[/name_u]: I love [name_u]Finn[/name_u]!
[name_u]Embry[/name_u]: I’ve never really thought about this name but I actually really like it.
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]: Great name.

[name_m]Beckett[/name_m], [name_u]Embry[/name_u], and [name_m]Ezra[/name_m] all go well with the middle name [name_u]Grey[/name_u].
However, for [name_u]Finn[/name_u] you would probably want something more substantial like [name_m]Harrison[/name_m], [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m], or [name_m]Alexander[/name_m].

I like [name_m]Beckett[/name_m], [name_u]Finn[/name_u] and [name_m]Ezra[/name_m]. You can’t go wrong with any of those, if they work with the surname. Maybe I’d like [name_m]Calloway[/name_m] better if I could think of a real good nn. Not [name_f]Calli[/name_f].

[name_m]Declan[/name_m], [name_u]Finn[/name_u], and [name_m]Ezra[/name_m] are phenomenal names!

I think Bucket when I say [name_m]Beckett[/name_m]

[name_u]Gray[/name_u] I prefer as a mn

[name_m]Calloway[/name_m] is actually pretty kick ass especially with the nn: [name_u]Cal[/name_u] but it all depends what your last name is you dont want your sons name to sound like a lawyers office

[name_u]Embry[/name_u] is just very feminine sounding

Great list. I can see why you are struggling. [name_f]My[/name_f] favorites are [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_m]Declan[/name_m], [name_u]Finn[/name_u], and [name_m]Beckett[/name_m]. [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_m]Declan[/name_m], and [name_u]Finn[/name_u] pretty much all tie for first. I am unsure how I would order those. [name_m]Beckett[/name_m] comes in at a close second. I slightly prefer [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] to [name_m]Beckett[/name_m]. [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] would be tied with [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_m]Declan[/name_m], and [name_u]Finn[/name_u].

[name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Ezra[/name_m], [name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m]
[name_u]Gray[/name_u] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m], [name_u]Gray[/name_u] [name_m]Ezra[/name_m]
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m], [name_m]Beckett[/name_m] [name_u]Embry[/name_u], [name_m]Beckett[/name_m] [name_m]Ezra[/name_m]
[name_u]Finn[/name_u] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m], [name_u]Finn[/name_u] [name_m]Ezra[/name_m]
[name_u]Embry[/name_u] [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_u]Embry[/name_u] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m] [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_m]Ezra[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m]

[name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m], [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_u]Embry[/name_u], [name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_m]Ezra[/name_m]

[name_m]Declan[/name_m]- Great!
[name_u]Gray[/name_u]- I think [name_u]Gray[/name_u] is lacking depth as a first name. Keep it in the middle.
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m]- Too surname-y.
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]- I love it!
[name_u]Finn[/name_u]- Awesome!
[name_u]Embry[/name_u]- Too feminine.
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]- [name_u]Love[/name_u] it.

I would narrow it down to [name_m]Declan[/name_m], [name_m]Beckett[/name_m], [name_u]Finn[/name_u], and [name_m]Ezra[/name_m], [name_u]Finn[/name_u] being my favorite.

[name_m]Declan[/name_m]- good name, but bad associations for some as he was a villain on Psych
[name_u]Gray[/name_u]- better in the Middle Name slot
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m]- cute and preppy but know that is a golf ball brand
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]- [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] this name! added bonus that [name_u]Beck[/name_u] is so great (also, have you thought about [name_m]Bennett[/name_m]? the [name_m]Ben[/name_m] nickname is a bit more traditional)
[name_u]Finn[/name_u]- Adorable name; works very well as a quirky middle name, too
[name_u]Embry[/name_u]- I’d never considered this name, but I like it a lot! a tad feminine, but that’s in style right now
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m]- People in your son’s generation will automatically associate [name_m]Ezra[/name_m] with the show Pretty [name_m]Little[/name_m] Liars (he was a teacher who got /involved/ with a student and then turned out to be a murderer basically)

I think your best bets are [name_m]Beckett[/name_m] [name_u]Finn[/name_u] ([name_m]Bennett[/name_m] [name_u]Finn[/name_u]) or [name_u]Embry[/name_u] [name_u]Finn[/name_u] (although the longer it takes me to compose this reply, the more [name_m]Calloway[/name_m] is growing on me. So maybe [name_m]Calloway[/name_m] [name_u]Finn[/name_u] as well)

[name_m]Declan[/name_m] - not my favorite, but a nice name
[name_u]Gray[/name_u] - I prefer this to [name_m]Grayson[/name_m]/[name_m]Greyson[/name_m] but agree with pp that it might be better in the middle
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m] - love love love [name_u]Cal[/name_u], and so really like this purely for the nickname potential
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m] - I actually really like this!
[name_u]Finn[/name_u] - love
[name_u]Embry[/name_u] - all boy to me, and again I really like this
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m] - not my favorite on your list, but again is a nice enough name

I love the idea of [name_m]Calloway[/name_m] [name_u]Finn[/name_u] or [name_m]Calloway[/name_m] [name_m]Beckett[/name_m], or [name_m]Beckett[/name_m] [name_u]Gray[/name_u]

[name_m]Declan[/name_m] - I think this is your best option. Its a real name with history, has the Irish vibe you seem to like without being overused, and (in case you happen to be religious) it happens to be an Irish saint’s name as well (from my favorite town actually!)
[name_u]Gray[/name_u] - Like this, though I think its too trendy right now thanks to 50 shades. I like [name_m]Grayson[/name_m] better.
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m] - I like this, you could use nn [name_u]Cal[/name_u] or Callo.
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m] - Sounds strong, but for some reason I’m thinking if soccer players & Downton [name_u]Abbey[/name_u] so I’m not digging it.
[name_u]Finn[/name_u] - Wasn’t this super trendy a few years ago with all the Aidens and Connors?
[name_u]Embry[/name_u] - Terrible [name_f]IMO[/name_f]. Looks girly, misspelled & just silly.
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m] - Too biblical. NMS

[name_f]My[/name_f] pick would be [name_m]Declan[/name_m] [name_m]Calloway[/name_m]

[name_m]Declan[/name_m] - I quite like [name_m]Declan[/name_m], it seems almost like a classic but under used.
[name_u]Gray[/name_u] - I like it as a nickname for [name_m]Grayson[/name_m], probably not on its own though.
[name_m]Calloway[/name_m] - This has a feminine feel to me, mostly because my dad wanted to call me [name_m]Calloway[/name_m] and I can’t get past that its quite a famous golfing brand.
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m] - I love [name_m]Beckett[/name_m], its definitely my favourite on your list.
[name_u]Finn[/name_u] - Such a nice name, its well known but not over used.
[name_u]Embry[/name_u] - nms but its nice, I personally prefer [name_u]Emery[/name_u].
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m] - See [name_m]Declan[/name_m].