Needing A Pep Talk

Was hoping I wouldn’t have to make this post, but I am struggling with feeling confident and comfortable with my list at the moment. I’m really only loving a few names that aren’t “over the top” or “ridiculous”, and I’m sort of needing convincing on a few of my loves now I feel like?:thinking:

Here are my current absolute loves;

  • [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f] (“ah-lee-yah” - ah as in “all”)
  • [name_u]Royalty[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Alondra[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Aiyana[/name_f] (“ay-awn-ah”)
  • [name_u]Angel[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Kamiyah[/name_f] (“kah-my-ah” - similar to the “ah” in [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f])
  • [name_f]Deja[/name_f] (“day-ja”)
  • [name_u]Diamond[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Essence[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Harmoni[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Jazmine[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Janiyah[/name_f] (“jan-eye-ah”)
  • [name_u]Legacy[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Kimora[/name_f]
  • [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Zariyah[/name_f] (“zar-ee-yah”)
  • [name_f]Xiomara[/name_f] (“zee-oh-mar-ah”)
  • [name_f]Cierra[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Stormi[/name_f]
  • [name_u]Paris[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Ashanti[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Ayesha[/name_f] (“eye-sha”)
  • [name_u]Courtney[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Heavenly[/name_f]
  • [name_f]Monique[/name_f]

[name_m]Can[/name_m] you please talk me into these again or help me love them again?

Thank you :sparkling_heart:

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I really love [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f], but I have met so many little girls named [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f]/Aliyah or have names that rhyme (Khaliyah, [name_f]Jaliyah[/name_f]).

More of your names that I really love and think are beautiful are:
-[name_f]Alondra[/name_f]
-[name_f]Aiyana[/name_f]
-[name_f]Kamiyah[/name_f]
-[name_f]Janiyah[/name_f] (I know a girl who spells it Jeniyah)
-[name_f]Kimora[/name_f]
-[name_f]Zariyah[/name_f]
-[name_f]Xiomara[/name_f] (this has been on my list for a long time)

I’ve always loved [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f], but then it got super popular, at least where I live, so I took it off my own list. [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f] from [name_m]Aladdin[/name_m] had always been my favorite Disney princess.

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  • Aaliyah -full of life and enegry. I’ve met two and they both wore it really well
  • Royalty - bold and powerful
  • Alondra -beautiful meaning and a lovely name
  • Aiyana -gorgeous and fun to say
  • Angel - sweet and gentle
  • Kamiyah - bright, sharp and soft at the same time
  • Deja - so cool and funky!
  • Diamond - sharp, pretty and special
  • Essence -I like the gentle, warm sound
  • Harmoni -lovely to say and feels peaceful
  • Jazmine -sparky and pretty
  • Janiyah - bouncy and fresh
  • Legacy -bold and meaningful
  • Kimora - strong and interesting
  • Phoenix -love the meaning and imagery of these names
  • Zariyah - i love the sounds and look
  • Xiomara - so intriguing and cool
  • Cierra - I love the sounds and vibe
  • Stormi -love the strong, fresh imagery
  • Paris - sparky and sweet
  • Ashanti - oh this is really cool
  • Ayesha -love the sounds and it’s literary too which is a plus for me
  • Courtney -strong and sweet
  • Heavenly - wholesome and bold
  • Monique -sleek and cool
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I mean I’d totally admire someone naming their child [name_u]Angel[/name_u]- have you seen [name_f]Buffy[/name_f] the Vampire Slayer?
[name_u]Courtney[/name_u] is also really pretty and sophisticated.

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From your list I really love:

Aaliyah - classic
[name_f]Aiyana[/name_f] - sounds cool and friendly
[name_f]Kamiyah[/name_f]
[name_f]Harmoni[/name_f] - one of the best people I know is named this and I love it
[name_f]Jazmine[/name_f] (was on the top of my list)
[name_f]Ayesha[/name_f]
[name_f]Xiomara[/name_f] - looks cool but I’m not sure how to pronounce (like it anyways!)

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Aaliyah - at this point I can’t imagine you with any other name at the top of your list. It’s perfect for you, it has the music diva connection without being a one-person-name, it’s your style look-wise and sound-wise and overall really pretty.
[name_f]Alondra[/name_f] - I’d even use it myself
[name_f]Aiyana[/name_f] - just as pretty as [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f]. It’s a shame they’re too close for sisters
[name_f]Kamiyah[/name_f] - now that’s a good sister to [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f]
[name_f]Deja[/name_f] - simple and cute.
[name_u]Diamond[/name_u] - perfect for you. You know you love it.
[name_f]Janiyah[/name_f] - I think I prefer [name_f]Kamiyah[/name_f], but they’re equally pretty.
[name_u]Legacy[/name_u] - even I have to admire the sheer power this word irradiates
[name_f]Kimora[/name_f] - love it!
[name_f]Zariyah[/name_f] - perfect with [name_f]Aaliyah[/name_f] and [name_f]Kamiyah[/name_f] (although confusing with the latter)
[name_f]Xiomara[/name_f] - I love this one! Used it on a character, I had no idea it was on your list!
[name_f]Cierra[/name_f] - sure, it’s pretty.
[name_f]Stormi[/name_f] - you know I prefer [name_u]Storm[/name_u], but you also know you could totally rock the i :stuck_out_tongue:
[name_f]Ayesha[/name_f] - I find the spelling confusing but the sound is nice.
[name_f]Heavenly[/name_f] - you keep coming back to it, so it can’t be that wrong

Monique, [name_f]Jazmine[/name_f], [name_u]Courtney[/name_u], [name_u]Paris[/name_u], [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u], [name_u]Angel[/name_u] - they are all perfectly fine, well-established names. You’re overthinking it. :heavy_heart_exclamation:

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Angel - one of my most dear friends is [name_u]Angel[/name_u], so I have never found [name_u]Angel[/name_u] to be trying too hard or pretentious or unable to live up to. It’s so beautiful because of it’s meaning, and such a spunky short fun sounding name.

Diamond - I love all the mineral names. [name_u]Diamond[/name_u] is an especially sparkly one, and doesn’t feel over the top to me as I don’t place more emphasis on diamonds then any other jewels (I know some do). Here again, the connections make the name beautiful, while the sound is sharp and fresh.

Essence - the perfect word name. A recognized, but not so commonly used word. With an ethereal, lovely meaning. And the sound is so namey!

Harmoni - what a beautiful meaning and sound. I have known girls by this name, and it feels very workable to me. It makes me think of music, what could be better. I feel like it fits so well with [name_f]Aria[/name_f], [name_f]Melody[/name_f], [name_u]Cadence[/name_u], [name_f]Allegra[/name_f] -but is just more unexpected!

I’ll try and be back to do a few more.

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Legacy - I just recently heard of this used on a child irl. I love the image and meaning. The Leg- part halts me sometime, but I think it’s usable. This may not be very convincing, but I didn’t want to leave it since I do love it. I think it would be the ultimate middle name if you were doubting any.

Phoenix - this has always been on the back of my mind for my own list. It has so much history, and should be easily recognized but not over used. [name_u]Love[/name_u] the sound and the combination of letters in this name.

Zariyah - I have never considered this name my self. But it is the epitome of beauty! [name_f]Every[/name_f] component of it, from the Z to the -h.

Xiomara - this name also has just the most gorgeous, melodic sound. The X makes such an unexpected, spunky look. I love [name_f]Mara[/name_f], and putting Xio in front only improves it.

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