New masculine-leaning name for a nonbinary person

I want to change my middle name to something more unisex or masculine. I’ll most likely be keeping my first name (Mandy) for professional reasons and going by my middle name socially, and my last name has three syllables and sounds sort of like Sheridan.

First off, here are some names I like that for one reason or another I cannot use: James, Elliot, Kit, Shelby, Sasha, Schuyler, Finn, Sam.

Some names I’m considering:
Julian
Alex (a childhood favorite)
Noël
Darby
Miles or Myles (I wouldn’t have to change my initials)
Chase (not really my style, but a family name)
Martyn
Theo
Ellis
Quinn
Dare (a little left-field, I know)

Feedback? Suggestions? I feel all named out :cold_sweat:

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welcome to nameberry!

if you plan on keeping your first name, i agree that a more masculine middle name would be ideal.

of your list, i like Noël, Quinn, and Ellis with Mandy

some additional suggestions

Declan
Flynn
Percy
Darcy
Briar
Sage
Arthur
Jaden
Austen
Rowan
Parker
Ryan
Jordan
Finley
Jude
Levi

i hope these help! good luck with choosing a new middle

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hello & welcome! I definitely understand being all named out! it can get tiring looking through so many names for yourself.

I love a bunch of your name list ideas! some favorites are [name_u]Julian[/name_u], [name_u]Noël[/name_u], [name_u]Theo[/name_u], [name_u]Ellis[/name_u], and [name_u]Quinn[/name_u]!

🪐 suggestions

[name_u]Mandy[/name_u] ______ S.

[name_u]Adrian[/name_u] / [name_u]Adrien[/name_u]
[name_m]Andreas[/name_m]
[name_u]Archer[/name_u]
[name_u]Atlas[/name_u]
[name_u]August[/name_u]
[name_u]Bellamy[/name_u]
[name_m]Caspar[/name_m]
[name_u]Cecil[/name_u]
[name_m]Cedric[/name_m]
[name_m]Cyrus[/name_m]
[name_m]Damien[/name_m]
[name_m]Darwin[/name_m]
[name_u]Devon[/name_u]
[name_u]Dorian[/name_u]
[name_u]Eden[/name_u]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u]
[name_u]Emmett[/name_u]
[name_u]Ezra[/name_u]
[name_m]Ferris[/name_m]
[name_u]Finch[/name_u]
[name_u]Finnegan[/name_u]
[name_u]Finn[/name_u]
[name_m]Finneas[/name_m]
[name_m]Finnian[/name_m]
[name_m]Finnick[/name_m]
[name_m]Forrest[/name_m]
[name_m]Fraser[/name_m]
[name_u]Gabriel[/name_u]
[name_m]Hadrien[/name_m]
[name_m]Harris[/name_m]
[name_m]Harrison[/name_m]
[name_u]Harvest[/name_u]
[name_u]Hollis[/name_u]
[name_m]Ivan[/name_m]
[name_m]Jacobi[/name_m]
[name_u]Jasper[/name_u]
[name_m]Joel[/name_m]
[name_u]Jordan[/name_u]
[name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_m]Julius[/name_m]
[name_u]Keegan[/name_u]
[name_u]Kit[/name_u]
[name_m]Knox[/name_m]
[name_u]Laurence[/name_u] / [name_u]Lawrence[/name_u]
[name_u]Leo[/name_u]
[name_m]Leon[/name_m]
[name_m]Lucas[/name_m] / [name_m]Lukas[/name_m]
[name_m]Matthew[/name_m]
[name_m]Matthias[/name_m]
[name_m]Nicholas[/name_m]
[name_m]Nikolai[/name_m]
[name_u]Oliver[/name_u]
[name_u]Orion[/name_u]
[name_m]Octavian[/name_m]
[name_m]Octavius[/name_m]
[name_m]Pascal[/name_m]
[name_m]Percival[/name_m]
[name_m]Rafael[/name_m] / [name_m]Raphael[/name_m]
[name_u]Reese[/name_u] / [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]
[name_m]Rhodes[/name_m]
[name_u]River[/name_u]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]
[name_m]Russell[/name_m]
[name_u]Sage[/name_u]
[name_m]Sebastian[/name_m]
[name_u]Seth[/name_u]
[name_m]Simon[/name_m]
[name_m]Silas[/name_m]
[name_m]Stellan[/name_m]
[name_m]Terrence[/name_m]
[name_m]Thomas[/name_m]
[name_m]Uriah[/name_m]
[name_m]Victor[/name_m] / [name_m]Viktor[/name_m]
[name_m]Vincent[/name_m]
[name_m]Waylon[/name_m]
[name_u]William[/name_u]
[name_m]Willis[/name_m]
[name_u]Willow[/name_u]
[name_m]Zaccheus[/name_m]
[name_u]Zion[/name_u]

I hope some of these you haven’t seen, and that they bring you some inspiration! count any repeats as second votes! best of luck on your name search! (:

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[name_f]My[/name_f] favorite for you is [name_u]Ellis[/name_u], followed by [name_u]Miles[/name_u], [name_u]Alex[/name_u] and [name_u]Julian[/name_u]

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I was going to suggest [name_m]Marcel[/name_m] as a middle. If you wanted to use [name_u]Alex[/name_u], I would do the full name [name_m]Alexander[/name_m] and use a nn…the full name works better in the middle I feel (same with Theo/Theodore). I love [name_u]Julian[/name_u] from your list!
Other names I like with [name_u]Mandy[/name_u] are:
[name_u]Cameron[/name_u]
[name_u]Jordan[/name_u]
[name_u]Taylor[/name_u]
[name_u]River[/name_u]
[name_u]Lane[/name_u]
[name_u]Dane[/name_u]

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[name_u]Darby[/name_u], [name_u]Miles[/name_u] and [name_u]Ellis[/name_u] are nice!! [name_u]Alex[/name_u] is good too

I’ll suggest

[name_u]Adair[/name_u]
[name_u]Blaine[/name_u]
[name_u]Chance[/name_u]
[name_u]Everett[/name_u]
[name_u]Tristan[/name_u]
[name_u]Tate[/name_u]
[name_u]Quincy[/name_u]
[name_u]Ashby[/name_u]
[name_m]Ozzy[/name_m]
[name_u]Arlo[/name_u]
[name_u]Remy[/name_u]
[name_u]Teddy[/name_u]
[name_u]Frankie[/name_u]
[name_u]Ronnie[/name_u]
[name_m]Joel[/name_m]
[name_u]Roscoe[/name_u]
[name_u]Evan[/name_u]
[name_u]Luca[/name_u]

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Thank you all so much for your welcome and your suggestions! Some of your suggestions I can’t use (I do love Jordan but it’s not an option) but Emmett and Adair are definitely on my shortlist.

I would prefer Alexander to Alex but I feel like it sounds funny with Mandy.

Also. I really like Elliot and it comes up on a few of your suggestions but I’ve been compared to Elliot Page for his whole career, so would it be weird to use that?

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I don’t think it would be weird! Most strangers wouldn’t know of those associations and it would probably just take once to explain to those who have compared you to him that that’s not why you chose it. And if you did choose it for the association it would still be fine!

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I think I’ve narrowed it down but now I’m wondering if I should change my first or middle name. [name_u]Or[/name_u] both.

[name_u]Mandy[/name_u] [name_u]Elliott[/name_u]
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Marie[/name_u]
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Louise[/name_u]

[name_u]Mandy[/name_u] [name_u]Julian[/name_u]
[name_u]Julian[/name_u] [name_u]Marie[/name_u]
(I hate the repeating sounds in [name_u]Julian[/name_u] Louise)