For the life of me I do not understand the take of nn’s that some berries have like how it will make or break a name for them to not have one or how they wont use a name if it has one they dont like. All you have to say is “we dont call our child that so we expect you not to call them that either” or are people too passive to do this? Is it considered rude?
Personally I never even thought about nn’s until I got on nameberry, I feel like they just come naturally and when people say “my name is ____ and I always wanted a nn but there arent any good ones for it” I think theres a good chance their parents didnt like nn’s or for whatever reason no one bothered to give them one because [name]Ive[/name] yet to see a name that could not somehow be nicknamed.
So can someone explain to me why it’s necessary to preplan nn’s as well as names?