I’ve been on here before to ask name advice but have a different dilemma now. I was dumped by my professional athlete fiance at 11 weeks pregnant, 3 weeks before the wedding. We used fertility drugs to get pregnant and when his family found out, they got mad, changed his phone number and I have not heard from him since. I’m now 6 months pregnant with a little girl and despite many tearful emails, sonogram photos sent to his parents house and requests for communication, he has not sent so much as a text. The last words he said were, "I gotta go, my mom is coming (age 27) and I was defriended on Facebook. That was the last I heard of him. (We were together a year and a half and now all of a sudden, his brothers convinced him I was a gold digger when I met him before he made it to the major leagues and he still lives in his mom’s basement. I own my own home in a country club and financially fine on my own. )
Now he has hired my ex husbands attorney (I have custody of my 5 and 6 year old) and not only has filed a paternity test (such a slap in the face), he now has filed for SOLE CUSTODY OF THE [name]BABY[/name] UPON HER BIRTH. He is a pro athlete who lives on the road and apartment during the season and then at his mom’s house. I don’t drink, do drugs or anything bad. I’m homeroom mom and active in church. They worse they can say is that I dated someone who was 19 when I was 26. I have a high profile attorney as reporters are calling but does anyone know if this is even possible or heard of a similar situation where mother was abandoned and dad wanted custody? My attorney says its a scare tactic but looking for real life scenarios.
Also, after asking for paternity test in legal document yesterday he then said he wanted me to coordinate birth of the baby around his baseball schedule. This would mean he would have completely abandoned me in first trimester, not offered any financial or emotional support, not asked about baby at all, questioned paternity when he gave me the shot and then will just show up at hospital?
Obviously I am still heartbroken and devastated and have cried everyday for the last three months. Looking for some peace of mind if anyone has any advice.