I think using [name_f]Odessa[/name_f] would be extremely tone-deaf, to be honest.
[name_f]Odette[/name_f] is beautiful and elegant, very lovely!
Maybe you’ll like [name_f]Olympia[/name_f], [name_f]Odile[/name_f], [name_f]Odelia[/name_f], [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f], [name_f]Orla[/name_f]