Oliver William or Oliver Jon?

[name]Hi[/name] all,
My husband and I have decided on the name [name]Oliver[/name] if we have a boy, but we are torn between the middle names [name]William[/name] (for my dad) and [name]Jon[/name] (for his grandpa, who practically raised him). His grandfather passed away 11 years ago, so there would be no hurt feelings if we didn’t go with “[name]Jon[/name]”- however “[name]Jon[/name]” is also my husband’s middle name. My argument is that my father would be thrilled if we honored him in this way, but I also don’t want to be selfish. What should we do??

Our choices are:

[name]Oliver[/name] [name]Jon[/name]
[name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name]
[name]Oliver[/name] [name]Jon[/name] [name]William[/name]
[name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Jon[/name]

My 2 cents?

USE THEM [name]BOTH[/name].

I’m in the same boat as you (kind of), and I think we’re going to use two middles. Go for it!

[name]Oliver[/name] [name]Jon[/name] [name]William[/name] is very handsome!

Of course the personal reasons behind your baby’s name are up to you, but based on the names themselves I much prefer [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] to [name]Oliver[/name] [name]Jon[/name].

But why not name him [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Jon[/name] - dilemma over!

Good luck!

Like [name]Araminta[/name] I also prefer [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] to [name]Oliver[/name] [name]Jon[/name], but together they sound great and solve your dilemma! [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Jon[/name] is the combination I like best.

I say [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Jon[/name], why not make everyone happy? It also just sounds like a amazing combination.

I agree… I really like the flow of [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Jon[/name]. Two mn are fashionable right now, and honors both your families. There is no guarantee that you would have another boy so why not now?

Congrats on settling on a first name though.

G

Thanks, everyone! I talked it over with the hubby and we’ve agreed on [name]Oliver[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Jon[/name]. Thanks so much for your suggestions and encouragement :slight_smile: