One week to go--can't make a decision!!

Longtime forum browser, first time poster here…due in a week with our FIRST baby and just can’t seem to make a decision on name!! I’ve always been bad at making decisions and this one is gonna stick with my little guy for the rest of his life so I’m freaking out a bit! Husband and I have narrowed it down to a few–super honest opinions on these would be greatly appreciated! Our last name starts with B and is two syllables.

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m]
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u]
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]

[name_m]Don[/name_m]'t spare my feelings lol I just want some outside opinions! :slight_smile:

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] is cool, but doesn’t flow well.
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] is the most unusual. And it doesn’t flow well.
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] also doesn’t flow well.
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] sounds great and it flows well.

Based on the overall name, I vote [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] B. It sounds really handsome and cute. It flows better than the others. Congratulations by the way! -[name_u]Raven[/name_u]

They are all strong names, however [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] is my favorite from your list by far! Not sure if [name_m]Leo[/name_m] flows well with it though. But if I’m allowed to mix and match, I adore [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u]!

I love [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u], [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u], and [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m]! Esp. the first two.

Thanks for the comments about flow, I think that’s something I just have a hard time noticing so I’m happy for the feedback!
Mixing and matching is great too! I do like [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u] as well, I just really have a thing for the short middle names :slight_smile:

My husband and I are both [name_m]Leos[/name_m] and baby will be too so that’s one of the reasons we liked that one! [name_m]Just[/name_m] kind of cute that we all match. Also Ruslan is not on nameberry but it is close to the Russian word for “lion” so that kind of goes with the theme too. We really want a strong, unique name so happy to hear that’s the vibe you guys are getting from these!

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - like but agree with previous poster doesn’t flow well
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] - interesting and cool but doesn’t flow well maybe Ruslan [name_m]Leo[/name_m] instead?
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] - [name_u]Seth[/name_u] [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] flows much better, maybe to close to actor [name_u]Seth[/name_u] [name_m]Rogen[/name_m]?
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] - [name_u]Love[/name_u] it, best option!

Good luck!

I really like Ruslan, it’s unique and has a great meaning and comes across as a cool name for a boy.

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - I’m just personally not a fan of [name_m]Atlas[/name_m], but I know a lot of people are
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] - my favorite pick from your list. [name_u]Jude[/name_u] is also a name I’m collecting on my list
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] - this one I feel neutral on, flows well, just not in love with it
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] - this is my second pick from your list

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - I want to love this because it looks so cool, but the flow isn’t great. I think [name_m]Leo[/name_m] [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] may flow better.
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] - I like [name_u]Jude[/name_u] a lot, but not Ruslan. It reminds me of wrestlin’ or rasslin’.
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] - Again, the flow isn’t great here. I’d say [name_u]Seth[/name_u] [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] flows better, but then I think of [name_u]Seth[/name_u] [name_m]Rogan[/name_m].
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] - This is by far the name that flows best here. And I like it quite a bit!

I don’t mean to be harsh, just trying to be honest. I actually love many of these names, it’s just the flow that doesn’t feel right.

Some suggestions:

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_u]Jude[/name_u] [name_m]Atlas[/name_m]
[name_u]Elliot[/name_u] [name_u]Jude[/name_u]
Aslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_m]Ezra[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_u]Nico[/name_u] [name_u]Elliot[/name_u]
[name_m]Roland[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u]
[name_m]Leo[/name_m] [name_m]Nikolai[/name_m]

My favorites are [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] and [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u].

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] --I love [name_m]Leo[/name_m]–and even more so for the “leo” backstory you provided: Would you consider [name_m]Leo[/name_m] as a first name? [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] is undoubtedly a cool name, but I tend to be a little conservative when it comes to names with negative “stories” attached to them (like being forced to bear the whole burden of the world on your shoulders)–this is entirely a personal hang-up–it’s what keeps me from falling in love with the gorgeous name [name_f]Ophelia[/name_f], for example. And I know you could also think of maps and mountains for [name_m]Atlas[/name_m], which are obviously positive, or just not be as weirdly literal about names as I am!
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] --I’m not sure I’m saying Ruslan correctly but I’m not loving the sound of it as I imagine it… Again I love your middle name choice here, and would love [name_u]Jude[/name_u] Ruslan as a combo (with the “lion” meaningful middle name)
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u]–I love it!
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]–I love it!

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - love love [name_m]Atlas[/name_m], I like it with [name_m]Leo[/name_m] but with a two-syllable last name it may work better to use a one- or three-syllable middle name like [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_u]Gray[/name_u] or [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m]

Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] - this is my least favorite on your list, it looks strong on paper but when I say it, it sounds like “rust land”

[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] - love love [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], I can’t decide between this and [name_m]Atlas[/name_m]

[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] Ryhs - I don’t love it, don’t hate it, I guess next to [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] and [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], it’s just kind of meh

Good luck!!

My favorite is [name_m]Ronan[/name_m]! [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] is nice but I would prefer [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u].

My close second would be [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]. This has an amazing flow! I love [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]. Great combo.

Another yay for [name_m]Ronan[/name_m]!

My favorite is [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]. I think both names are great and they flow well together. The rest of the names on your list all seem very…hipster-y to me, I guess, and they aren’t really my style. So [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] definitely gets my vote!

My favourite out of your list is [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u]. I think it flows the best, although Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] flows pretty well too.

I love [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u], [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m], and [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u]. I love the suggestion of [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_u]Jude[/name_u].

[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_m]Atlas[/name_m]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u] [name_m]Atlas[/name_m]
[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_u]Jude[/name_u] [name_u]Elliot[/name_u]
[name_u]Rhys[/name_u] [name_m]Ronan[/name_m]

I’m surprised to see so many Berries so negative about the use of Ruslan. OK I knew a very lovely Ruslan for a short time and so am predisposed to like the name, but I also think many of them are mispronouncing it to themselves. The Ruslan I knew didn’t rhyme at all with “rust” - it’s a long “u” sound like “oo”. Anyway I vote for that name. I also think the whole flow argument is a bit overblown. [name_m]How[/name_m] often are you going to call your child by all three names?? I think a name that is meaningful to you and your husband and that you both agree on is the most important. All of your options are going to be just fine for baby, but my personal opinion would be to go with Ruslan.

Thanks for the word on pronunciation! I was indeed imagining the “rus” sound from “rust.” The “oo” sound is much more appealing. But then I guess the question is will it be chronically mispronounced and if so, will that bother you/your future kid.

I like [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] and [name_u]Elliot[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u], but I think [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] needs a longer middle, like [name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leopold[/name_m]. I’m not really a fan of [name_m]Ronan[/name_m], Ruslan is cool but I think it will be mispronounced really often.

[name_m]Atlas[/name_m] [name_m]Leo[/name_m] - I dislike [name_m]Atlas[/name_m]. [name_m]Leo[/name_m] is fine but I prefer [name_m]Leopold[/name_m].
Ruslan [name_u]Jude[/name_u] - I dislike Ruslan and [name_u]Jude[/name_u].
[name_m]Ronan[/name_m] [name_u]Seth[/name_u] - I like [name_m]Ronan[/name_m] but I dislike [name_u]Seth[/name_u].
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u] [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] - I dislike [name_u]Rhys[/name_u] but I like [name_u]Elliott[/name_u].

I like [name_m]Leopold[/name_m] [name_u]Elliott[/name_u] and [name_m]Leopold[/name_m] [name_m]Ronan[/name_m].