NO [name]WAY[/name] will we mention it until it is on the birth certificate. My family and I have COMPLETELY different tastes. I made the mistake of mentioning [name]Henry[/name] to my mother and she loathes it, and when I mentioned [name]Rufus[/name] and [name]Eliza[/name] to my sister and her actual words were “you’re kidding, right?” Oh, and her favorite names are [name]Riley[/name] (for a girl) and [name]Hayden[/name] (for a boy). So not my taste.
Oh my god, she thought you were kidding about [name]Eliza[/name]? What??? [name]Eliza[/name] is only one of the best names of all time! And you reminded me of a lady who I met that told me someone down the street from her just named her baby [name]Henry[/name], “[name]How[/name] could you name a baby [name]Henry[/name]?” and she went on and on about how horrible and cruel that was. My [name]SIL[/name] was thinking about [name]Owen[/name] for their son and my [name]MIL[/name] said “You can’t name him [name]Owen[/name]! [name]Owen[/name] is such a nerds name!” What?
My brother isn’t close to having kids, but I’m trying to imbed [name]Fred[/name] in his head (he hates [name]Frederick[/name] and [name]Alfred[/name], but he likes [name]Fred[/name] so I’m gonna stick with that! Actually [name]Alfredo[/name] would be a good option for him). I told my mom “I would be so happy if I had a nephew named [name]Freddie[/name]! Would you like to have a grandson named [name]Freddie[/name]?” “ugh, no not at all”.
Oh and his girlfriends sister is having a baby and I asked her the name,
“[name]Nathaniel[/name]”
“Oh, I love that name!”
“Really? I liked their other name better”
“What was it?”
“[name]Armani[/name]”
:?
Oh, families and their varying tastes in names. It’s weird how it can be sooo very different!
We ended up naming him [name]Dashiell[/name], nn [name]Dash[/name]. I know it’s a totally different style than [name]Alfie[/name], (and [name]Eliza[/name], [name]Rufus[/name] and [name]Henry[/name]) so it’s probably not your cup of tea. It was more my husbands choice. But strangely my family LOVES his name and really pushed hard for it when they found out it was a contender.
So are you decided on [name]Alfie[/name] [name]Jack[/name]? Oh man, I think I would always call him [name]Alfie[/name] [name]Jack[/name], that is so dang cute! I can’t wait to hear what your family says about it!
Haha, just remembered another thing. When my mom told my aunt we were going to use [name]Alfie[/name] the first thing she said was “well you know he’s going to have red hair”… What?
Sorry for talking so much! I’m bored!