Please help I need a name

General Name Discussion
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I’m looking to change my name since the one my parents gave me comes off too feminine to really fit me anymore, since I’m kind of thinking I’m probably not a girl a lot of the time. Like I [name_m]Don[/name_m]'t Know What The H*ll I Am, But Occasionally I’m A Girl And Occasionally I’m A [name_m]Guy[/name_m] But Most Of The Time I’m Nothing Really and I’d kind of prefer to have a name that reflects that. I have a whole list and most of it is like just not quite exactly right. Like it’s close, but just. Not just there yet. Rn it’s:

[name_m]Caleb[/name_m] (too masculine)
Ellory (too close to my friend’s name)
[name_u]Harper[/name_u] (too modern/trendy sounding)
[name_u]Mattie[/name_u] (sounds like a nickname but I don’t know what for)
[name_f]Selah[/name_f] (tbh I don’t even know why I don’t want it)
[name_u]Aiden[/name_u] (It just doesn’t fit me)
[name_m]Milo[/name_m] (^^^)
[name_u]Emmett[/name_u] (Twilight)
[name_m]Theory[/name_m] (It’s a word)

I can’t ask anyone irl for help right now but if any of y’all can help I like names with like historical/book references? Thanks in advance if anyone can.

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[name_f]Bronte[/name_f] was the first thing I thought of.

I don’t think [name_u]Mattie[/name_u] needs a full name! It sounds a little nickname-y but it doesn’t have to be if you really like it. I also wasn’t very creative and couldn’t find anything besides [name_m]Matteo[/name_m], which may be a bit too masculine for you.

[name_u]River[/name_u]
[name_m]Jonah[/name_m]
[name_u]Rory[/name_u]
[name_u]Kendall[/name_u]
[name_u]Phoenix[/name_u]
[name_f]Galaxy[/name_f]
[name_m]Beckett[/name_m]
[name_u]Reese[/name_u]/[name_u]Rhys[/name_u]
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_u]Collins[/name_u]
[name_u]Logan[/name_u]
[name_u]Elias[/name_u]/[name_u]Ellis[/name_u]
[name_u]Sailor[/name_u]/[name_u]Saylor[/name_u]
[name_m]Oliver[/name_m] ([name_f]Olive[/name_f]?)
[name_m]Lowell[/name_m]
[name_u]Parker[/name_u]
[name_u]Sawyer[/name_u]
[name_m]Ian[/name_m]
[name_u]Finch[/name_u]
[name_u]Wren[/name_u]
[name_u]Avery[/name_u]
[name_u]Alexis[/name_u]
[name_u]Charlie[/name_u]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]
[name_u]Finley[/name_u]
[name_u]Elliott[/name_u]
[name_u]Spencer[/name_u]
[name_u]Skylar[/name_u]/[name_u]Skyler[/name_u]/[name_u]Schuyler[/name_u]
[name_u]Scout[/name_u]
[name_u]Remy[/name_u]
[name_u]Blake[/name_u]
[name_u]Drew[/name_u]

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I would definitely go for a “gender neutral” name.

What about [name_u]Emerson[/name_u] instead of [name_u]Emmett[/name_u]? Or even [name_u]Everest[/name_u].

I also like [name_u]Skyler[/name_u], [name_u]Spencer[/name_u], [name_u]Reese[/name_u], [name_u]Rowan[/name_u], [name_u]Blake[/name_u], [name_u]Finley[/name_u] and [name_u]Charlie[/name_u]. Maybe look up gender neutral names and go from there.

Best of luck!

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Fungusamongus gave you a great list, so I’ll just add [name_u]Austen[/name_u]—[name_f]Jane[/name_f] [name_u]Austen[/name_u] spelling for a touch of femininity while it sounds like the traditionally male [name_m]Austin[/name_m]. It’s a guilty pleasure name of mine.

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Here are some nice gender neutral names to consider:
[name_u]Avery[/name_u]
[name_u]Blake[/name_u]
[name_u]Cameron[/name_u]
[name_u]Carson[/name_u]
[name_u]Devon[/name_u]
[name_u]Emerson[/name_u]
[name_u]Parker[/name_u]
[name_u]Peyton[/name_u]
[name_u]Quinn[/name_u]
[name_u]Reece[/name_u]
[name_u]River[/name_u]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]

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[name_u]Bailey[/name_u], [name_u]Brooke[/name_u], [name_u]Emery[/name_u], [name_u]Gray[/name_u], [name_u]Hayden[/name_u], [name_u]James[/name_u], [name_u]Jules[/name_u], [name_u]Oakley[/name_u], [name_u]Parker[/name_u], [name_u]Peyton[/name_u], [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u], [name_u]Quinn[/name_u], [name_u]Robin[/name_u], [name_u]Sage[/name_u], [name_u]Sawyer[/name_u]