Please help October baby can't agree on a name!

So DH and I are stuck on [name_f]Harriet[/name_f] and [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f]…but we can’t agree so trying to think of an alternative name, our second DD is due in a month.

We’ve come up with [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] or [name_u]Connie[/name_u]. Any ideas for middle names to go with, or similar first name ideas would be greatly appreciated!!

[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Alexandra[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Angelica[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Elise[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Cordelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Mabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Caroline[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Amber[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Amelia[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Savannah[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Rachel[/name_f]
[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Zara[/name_f]

Some other names:
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Nadia[/name_f]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Leah[/name_f]

It seems like you both enjoy strong"t" sounds. These might appeal as first or middle names:
[name_f]Henrietta[/name_f]
[name_f]Etta[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]
[name_f]Juliette[/name_f]
[name_f]Colette[/name_f]
[name_f]Leticia[/name_f]
[name_f]Antoinette[/name_f]
[name_f]Antonia[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f] (pronounced [name_u]TAY[/name_u]-a)
[name_f]Marta[/name_f]
[name_f]Zita[/name_f]
[name_f]Estella[/name_f]
[name_f]Tess[/name_f]
[name_f]Natalia[/name_f]
Tasha
Natasha
Bridget
Anastasia
Matilda
Beatrice
Bernadette
Marguerite
Jeanette

Well, all of those names seem really different to me. [name_f]Harriet[/name_f] seems old-fashioned English, while [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] seems playful but a bit puritan-ish, and [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] seems modern, Greek, and zippy (even though I know it is a long-standing name), then [name_u]Connie[/name_u] seems informal and nicknamey. [name_u]Connie[/name_u] was actually the name of a few of my mom’s friends, so that’s what I think of. I personally love [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] - fun to say, lots of history, adorable nns- [name_f]Tibby[/name_f], [name_u]Tate[/name_u], Tiz/Tizzy ([name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] [name_f]Zoe[/name_f]) etc… lilting and pretty, not overly common but completely recognizable…I think it’s great! What about Roselet -kind of like [name_f]Harriet[/name_f] but a bit more rare. Or [name_f]Zelie[/name_f] as a sort of [name_f]Zoe[/name_f]/[name_u]Connie[/name_u] combo - [name_f]Zelie[/name_f] or [name_u]Zola[/name_u] might be fun and fancy, both. Good luck!

If you like [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] and [name_u]Connie[/name_u]:

[name_f]Marie[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Maggie[/name_f]
[name_f]Tess[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosie[/name_f]
[name_u]Remi[/name_u]
[name_f]Demi[/name_f]
[name_f]Lena[/name_f]
[name_u]Lexie[/name_u] / [name_u]Lexi[/name_u]
[name_f]Edie[/name_f]
[name_f]Eve[/name_f]
[name_f]Evie[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmie[/name_f] / [name_f]Emmy[/name_f]
[name_f]Amelie[/name_f]
[name_f]Meadow[/name_f]
[name_f]Gwen[/name_f]
[name_f]Felicity[/name_f]
[name_f]Melody[/name_f] / [name_f]Melodie[/name_f]
[name_f]Coralie[/name_f]
[name_f]Priscilla[/name_f]
[name_f]Marjorie[/name_f]
[name_f]Verity[/name_f]
[name_f]Amity[/name_f]
[name_f]Valerie[/name_f]

[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Matilda[/name_f] . [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Annabelle[/name_f] . [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Gwendolyn[/name_f] . [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Adeline[/name_f] . [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Temperance[/name_f] . [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Marigold[/name_f] . [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Veronica[/name_f]

[name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Millicent[/name_f] . [name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Josette[/name_f] . [name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Josephine[/name_f] . [name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_u]Evelyn[/name_u] . [name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_f]Victoria[/name_f]

Stick with [name_f]Harriet[/name_f]! I also like [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] and [name_f]Zoe[/name_f]

Another vote for [name_f]Harriet[/name_f]. [name_f]Zoe[/name_f] is nice too but way more common so a bit less interesting. [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] isn’t my favorite but it’s nice. [name_u]Connie[/name_u] is still a bit of a grandma/mom name for me.

[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Catrina[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Constance[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Elaine[/name_f]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_u]Eloise[/name_u]
[name_f]Zoe[/name_f] [name_f]Maxine[/name_f]

Other suggestions:

[name_f]Bridget[/name_f]
[name_f]Celeste[/name_f]
[name_f]Corinne[/name_f]
[name_f]Edith[/name_f]
[name_f]Esther[/name_f]
[name_f]Josephine[/name_f]
[name_f]Matilda[/name_f]
[name_f]Maxine[/name_f]
[name_f]Odette[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamsin[/name_f]

I prefer [name_f]Constance[/name_f] with [name_u]Connie[/name_u] as a nickname.

[name_f]Zoe[/name_f]/[name_f]Zoey[/name_f] is very popular but a lovely name.

For [name_f]Harriet[/name_f] I love the nickname [name_f]Hattie[/name_f].

[name_f]Tabitha[/name_f] is nice but my least favourite of your names.

My favourite is [name_f]Zoey[/name_f] followed by [name_f]Harriet[/name_f].

Good luck!

[name_f]Constance[/name_f] with nickname [name_u]Connie[/name_u]? It’s somewhat similar to [name_f]Tabitha[/name_f].

Great suggestions thanks. Thinking maybe [name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_u]Jean[/name_u], or [name_u]Connie[/name_u] [name_u]Jo[/name_u], Connie June…? [name_f]Harriet[/name_f] [name_f]Ada[/name_f]? Still pondering.