Im going to make a poll with all our options later on just trying to cross some off the list. Thanks 
I’m due with my fourth son in June, if you had to choose one or the other which do you like more? My hesitation with Jack is there are alot of little Jacks, Jaxx’s and Jackson’s running around our area. I like Benjamin but I have known so many growing up in the 90s. I like the nn Bo or Jamie or Benji though.
For me this is tough as I really like both [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] & [name_m]Jack[/name_m]. But my favourite is [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u]! [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] is strong biblical classic with a range of fabulous nicknames including [name_m]Benji[/name_m] which is adorable. [name_m]Jack[/name_m] in the U.K. as a stand alone name is very popular so for me [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] feels more refreshing.
I love [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u]!
Benjamin nn [name_u]Bo[/name_u] or [name_m]Benji[/name_m] is wonderful. I do like [name_m]Jack[/name_m] but I think I prefer it as a middle for you. It feels a little plain beside your boys’ names.
i definitely prefer [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u], it’s classic and strong 
I prefer [name_u]Benjamin[/name_u] but I hate the nickname [name_m]Benji[/name_m] so I voted [name_m]Jack[/name_m]. Both are great names though! I think most little Jacks are just [name_m]Jack[/name_m] or a nickname for [name_u]Jackson[/name_u], so if you want to get away from trendy (which I don’t find [name_m]Jack[/name_m] at all!) you could do [name_m]John[/name_m] nn [name_m]Jack[/name_m].