Hi all! My husband and I aren’t expecting yet, but I have been bugging him with name nerdiness . We’ve been having a debate about initials and I’m hoping to get some outside perspective. I see a similar post on this site but it’s from 2014, so…
We realized we both love the name Xavier for a boy, which is a huge accomplishment since we have drastically different naming tastes. But then I put it together with our last name and realized the initials would be… XL. Husband thinks it would be fine and a middle name would break it up anyway, but I think that Xavier is unusable since first/last initials are used more than first/middle/last and it could cause teasing.
I honestly think it’s nothing to worry about — I’ve met folks with much worse initials, and like your husband says you can always include his middle when putting his initials on things
I think it’s okay, especially as it’s for a boy (I think a girl is more likely to be teased about being a “size XL”, but that could be just my perception).
If your family has a genetic tendency towards being overweight, I would be hesitant to recommend it though.
Good thoughts! I still see the potential concerns that could come up, but I’m more reassured about it. It’ll stay on the list for now. Thank you everyone!