Questioning Eliza and Molly! 🌻

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] everyone!

I know I’ve posted about this many times, so please gogó Unfortunately, I am feeling a little off again about using a form of my own middle name as a future daughter’s name. I love that it is so strong and sweet. I know in using [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] that I would be honoring my grandmother, and I LOVE that and I love the name so much. With [name_f]Molly[/name_f], I’d be honoring my grandma and my mom, and I love that too!

Some other options that I’ve been thinking of are:

[name_f]Sophie[/name_f] or [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_u]Hazel[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] (I like the strong z and also saw this one on here earlier and loved it!)
[name_u]Ivy[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] (I read somewhere that in addition to being a botanical name, [name_u]Ivy[/name_u] means joyous?)
[name_f]Molly[/name_f] [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f] or [name_f]Molly[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] or [name_f]Gracie[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Gabriella[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] or [name_f]Brielle[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Evie[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_u]Josie[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Audrey[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Greta[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliana[/name_f] [name_f]Faith[/name_f] (honors my grandma’s faith and uses her middle initial in the first name.)
[name_f]Noelle[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_u]Frankie[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Lyla[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Bridget[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]

[name_m]Can[/name_m] you help me figure this out? Should I stick with [name_f]Eliza[/name_f]? Should I stick with [name_f]Molly[/name_f]? Would it be better to go with another name than I love and continue the tradition of using [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] as the middle name? [name_m]Can[/name_m] you think of any other names with one strong sound, like the z? [name_u]Will[/name_u] I regret not using [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] or [name_f]Molly[/name_f]?

Any feedback you may be able to offer would be greatly appreciated!

Thank you so much!

:butterfly::white_heart:

What about like a cute form of [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]? Like [name_f]Lyla[/name_f] [name_f]Buffy[/name_f] or [name_f]Violet[/name_f] [name_f]Buffy[/name_f] would be such cute combos.

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@Wittyusername103 Thank you so much! I really appreciate this! [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] is my favorite form of [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], which is why I was originally thinking of using that. But thinking of using that. But there are so many other cute names we can get from it!

Thank you again!

:butterfly::white_heart:

I wonder if you’re tiring out the names and therefore turning off them? All names lose sparkle through analysis and scrutiny. Maybe they need to be popped on the shelf (treated as a possibility, nothing more) until you’re closer to using them? Then just fun in meantime?

On that note, could always list as possibilities, different versions of both, one or a combination:

Marianne
Mary
Maisie
Elspeth
Elsie
Liberty
Lily
Beth
May
Martha
Elise
Isabella
Belle
Bess
Isla
Lisette
Betty

Then just list a handful of your other faves of the ones listed (I like Anna, Hazel, Bridget, Noelle & Grace). In other words, I would create a list of 10 names rather than agonise on deciding on one right now.

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I second the above suggestion to just pop both on the shelf for a little bit, if you overthink your favourites too much they stop being favourites! That said, out if the combos you’ve listed I love [name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Sophia[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_u]Hazel[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliana[/name_f] [name_f]Faith[/name_f] :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: I’d recommend mulling over other names you love and then coming back to [name_f]Molly[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliza[/name_f], a little bit of time might give a different perspective.

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I think you should keep [name_f]Molly[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] on your list - they’re both lovely names and have spark and brightness. I would keep them on your list, but also consider other options - as you are - just to test whether [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] and [name_f]Molly[/name_f] feel more appealing still?

[name_f]Sophie[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_u]Hazel[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Molly[/name_f] [name_f]Isabelle[/name_f], [name_f]Audrey[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], [name_f]Eliana[/name_f] [name_f]Faith[/name_f] and [name_u]Frankie[/name_u] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] are lovely!

Some names with a strong sound like the Z:

[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Zadie[/name_f]
[name_f]Zara[/name_f]
[name_f]Azalea[/name_f]
[name_f]Alexandra[/name_f]
[name_f]Xanthe[/name_f]
[name_f]Acacia[/name_f]
[name_u]Esme[/name_u]
[name_f]Esmeray[/name_f]
[name_f]Isadora[/name_f]
[name_f]Isolda[/name_f]
[name_f]Ismay[/name_f]
[name_f]Topaz[/name_f]
[name_u]Waverly[/name_u]
[name_f]Jovie[/name_f]

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@EloiseT Thank you so much! I don’t necessarily think I’m tired of [name_f]Molly[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliza[/name_f], but I know I’m overthinking things, like I always do. :smiling_face:

Of your suggestions, my favorites are:

[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lily[/name_f]
[name_u]Liberty[/name_u] +
[name_f]Lisette[/name_f]

As you said, I think I will leave these on my list and explore other names, then come back to them in a few weeks!

Thank you again!

:butterfly::white_heart:

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@Mary_Rose Thank you so much! I will absolutely do that. I agree that there is something so simple and special about [name_f]Anna[/name_f] and [name_f]Grace[/name_f]. I know they have the same meaning but I love both. I’m leaning more toward [name_f]Anna[/name_f] right now. I’ve also always loved [name_f]Sophia[/name_f].

Thank you again!

:butterfly::white_heart:

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@Greyblue Thank you so much! I will definitely keep them on my list. I love all the names you mentioned from my list for so many different reasons!

Of your suggestions, my favorites are:

[name_f]Zara[/name_f]
[name_f]Maisie[/name_f]
[name_f]Acacia[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Alexandra[/name_f] +
[name_u]Esme[/name_u]

Thank you again!

:white_heart::butterfly:

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I would go with [name_f]Molly[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]! I also plan on passing [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] down in the middle name, but I think I’ll spell it [name_f]Elisabeth[/name_f]. It looks a bit softer to me.

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@may.rose Thank you so much! I love [name_f]Molly[/name_f] [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]! I think maybe my problem isn’t the names [name_f]Molly[/name_f] and [name_f]Eliza[/name_f] themselves, but the fact that I was so stuck on [name_f]Kate[/name_f] as the middle name for both when I would only realistically use it for one. I think it’s worth exploring other options!

Thank you again!

:butterfly::white_heart:

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