Premising that I am from Europe, I love this name and its meaning, which is of German origin, meaning “wise army”.
Yet I’m undecided on which form to use. I would love hear your opinions:
Rayner (Eng. Form); Mostly a surname, very rarely used as a first name, which could be an issue (?), yet it would assure the bearer of the name the nickname “ Ray ”, which I adore.
Rainer (Ger. Form); the most popular form of this name, still used in Germany. I’ve seen many people mistaking the spelling and reading it as “ Rainier ”, which I’m not a fan of and I’d like to avoid. There also seem to be some pronunciation issues about this form. It might still be associated to the nickname “ Ray ”.
Reiner (Alt. Ger. Form); another less popular form of Rainer, used in Germany. It seems to be used as a surname as well. Do you think that Reiner is safe from the “ Rainier ” misspelling? And could the nickname “ Ray ” still be associated to it?
Which form do you think is best? Thanks to anyone who will comment with their opinion!
[name_f]Do[/name_f] you pronounce all of these the same? [name_u]Or[/name_u] differently? [name_m]Just[/name_m] wondering because I thought [name_m]Reiner[/name_m] might be pronounced RY-ner if it’s [name_m]German[/name_m].
Personally, I’ve never met anyone with any of these names (I live in the UK for reference), but I think they’re all acceptable. [name_m]Rainer[/name_m] might be misread as “Rainier” by people who are more familiar with that name but it would be fairly simple to correct. That said, I would probably pick [name_m]Rayner[/name_m] if you want the RAY-ner pronunciation since it seems the easiest for me.
I like the spelling [name_m]Rayner[/name_m] for its ease of pronunciation. I do confuse [name_m]Rainer[/name_m] and [name_m]Reiner[/name_m] with [name_m]Ranier[/name_m] a little. However, [name_m]Rainer[/name_m] is also easy to pronounce. With [name_m]Reiner[/name_m] you may, depending on where you live, find that people are unsure whether to say [name_f]Ree[/name_f], [name_u]Rye[/name_u] or [name_u]Ray[/name_u] for the first syllable.
All in all, I’d go for [name_m]Rayner[/name_m] if I was choosing this name.
I second @choupette, to get to that pronunciation and the [name_u]Ray[/name_u] nickname you love, I’d go with [name_m]Rayner[/name_m]. [name_u]Happy[/name_u] naming, I had never heard of this one!
I pronounce both [name_m]Rainer[/name_m] and [name_m]Reiner[/name_m] the german way (RY-ner) while [name_m]Rayner[/name_m] the english way (RAY-ner).
I am leaning towards [name_m]Rayner[/name_m] and [name_m]Reiner[/name_m] right now, but I agree about the fact that [name_m]Rayner[/name_m] has indeed the easiest pronunciation.
Thanks for your valuable opinion, I’ll take that into account!
Someone told me that [name_m]Reiner[/name_m] could be be abbreviated to “Rei”, which is something I did not think before and might actually be pretty cool. Is it a nickname that could be easily associated to it, in your opinion?
If you are using the German pronunciation of Reiner and would pronounce ‘Rei’ the same as rye then of course! If you are saying ‘Ree’ then it may be a little confusing. The whole topic of pronunciation is so confusing via written language and between different cultures!