I’ve made some changes to my current lists for this new little one, based in part on feedback from all you lovely Berries. 
Still not sure which of these (if any) will be THE [name]ONE[/name], but hopefully we’re getting there!
Siblings are [name]Asher[/name] [name]Matthew[/name] and [name]Bettina[/name] [name]Skye[/name]. For a girl, I’m considering the middle names [name]Katherine[/name] (or [name]Kit[/name] - or maybe some other form of [name]Katherine[/name], but likely one of those), [name]Iris[/name], [name]Norita[/name] and [name]Susannah[/name]. All are family names. For a boy, I’m thinking [name]Michael[/name], [name]Victor[/name] or maybe [name]Joseph[/name] - also family names.
GIRLS:
[name]Agatha[/name]
[name]Clara[/name] (or possibly [name]Clare[/name])
[name]Eleanora[/name]
[name]Eve[/name]
[name]Hazel[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name]
[name]Jeanette[/name]
[name]Jessamyn[/name]
[name]Opal[/name]
[name]Vivian[/name]
BOYS:
[name]Cyprian[/name]
[name]Cyrus[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name]
[name]Geoffrey[/name]
[name]Henry[/name]
[name]Hiram[/name]
[name]Jude[/name]
[name]Roscoe[/name]
[name]Silas[/name]
[name]Yardley[/name]
Some favorite combinations as of this very moment for me: [name]Clare[/name] [name]Susannah[/name], [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Norita[/name], [name]Jeanette[/name] [name]Susannah[/name] and [name]Opal[/name] [name]Katherine[/name] for girls, and [name]Cyrus[/name] [name]Victor[/name] and [name]Hiram[/name] [name]Joseph[/name] for boys.
I’m open to any and all input and suggestions! The middle names aren’t COMPLETELY set in stone. I’d very much prefer to honor a family member, but for the perfect name I might budge.
Thanks again, you all - hopefully we’ll decide soon and I won’t be bugging you until February.
GIRLS:
[name]Agatha[/name] -love it
[name]Clara[/name] (or possibly [name]Clare[/name]) -love it, both of them
[name]Eleanora[/name] -like
[name]Eve[/name] -like
[name]Hazel[/name] -love
[name]Ivy[/name] -Nms
[name]Jeanette[/name] -Too dated
[name]Jessamyn[/name] -Sounds made up, nms
[name]Opal[/name] -Nms
[name]Vivian[/name] -Nms
BOYS:
[name]Cyprian[/name] -Sounds made up
[name]Cyrus[/name] -[name]Love[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name] -okay
[name]Geoffrey[/name] -Nms
[name]Henry[/name] -[name]Love[/name]
[name]Hiram[/name] -Dislike
[name]Jude[/name] -[name]Love[/name]
[name]Roscoe[/name] -Like
[name]Silas[/name] -[name]Love[/name]
[name]Yardley[/name] -Dislike
My favorites are [name]Agatha[/name], [name]Silas[/name], and [name]Jude[/name].
[name]Cyprian[/name] isn’t made up in the slightest, it’s been around for over 1500 years, and is the name of a saint. Thank you for the input though!
That’s why I said SOUNDS made up. [name]Just[/name] one opinion of many. 
Your list is really nice! What do you think of [name]Linnet[/name]? I think it sounds cute with [name]Bettina[/name].
Also, I love the name [name]Silas[/name] and I think it sounds great with [name]Asher[/name]!
GIRLS:
[name]Agatha[/name] - nms, a little harsh
[name]Clara[/name] (or possibly [name]Clare[/name]) - love, both of them.
[name]Eleanora[/name] - ok
[name]Eve[/name] - love. This name is underrated [name]IMO[/name].
[name]Hazel[/name] -ok.
[name]Ivy[/name] - like a lot.
[name]Jeanette[/name] - this is very middle-aged-lady to me
[name]Jessamyn[/name] -like this name a lot.
[name]Opal[/name] - middle-aged lady
[name]Vivian[/name] - don’t love this as much as other berries, just ok.
BOYS:
[name]Cyprian[/name] - nms
[name]Cyrus[/name] - nms
[name]Frederick[/name] - like a lot
[name]Geoffrey[/name] -nms
[name]Henry[/name] - love
[name]Hiram[/name] -nms
[name]Jude[/name] -nms
[name]Roscoe[/name] - don’t like
[name]Silas[/name] - don’t like
[name]Yardley[/name] - don’t know if it’s because she was local, but this just makes me think of Yeardly love 
GIRLS:
[name]Agatha[/name]- very clunky…and a bit old lady…NMS
[name]Clara[/name] (or possibly [name]Clare[/name])…love [name]Clara[/name]
[name]Eleanora[/name]- Prefer just [name]Eleanor[/name]
[name]Eve[/name]- [name]Love[/name]!
[name]Hazel[/name]- Goes well with your other kids I think…plus a cool name
[name]Ivy[/name]- same as [name]Hazel[/name]
[name]Jeanette[/name]- i don’t like it…very ‘middle-aged’
[name]Jessamyn[/name]- doesn’t seem to go with any of your other names at all…
[name]Opal[/name]- eh…its ok
[name]Vivian[/name]- very classy
BOYS:
[name]Cyprian[/name]- like the look, don’t like the sound
[name]Cyrus[/name]- makes me think of [name]Miley[/name] [name]Cyrus[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name]- NMS
[name]Geoffrey[/name]- one of my least favourite names!
[name]Henry[/name]- nice, but popular
[name]Hiram[/name]- not sure…doesn’t really match your other kids
[name]Jude[/name]- great choice!
[name]Roscoe[/name]- don’t like it much
[name]Silas[/name]- might be ok
[name]Yardley[/name]- never really heard of it…and I don’t like it!
I think [name]Silas[/name] just “goes” with your other children’s names! I love it!
As for girls, I think you have some real winners…I love [name]Clara[/name] and [name]Hazel[/name] most of all, and especially with big brother and big sister’s names.
GIRLS:
[name]Agatha[/name] - Meh. NMS.
[name]Clara[/name] - I love [name]Claire[/name] a million times more than [name]Clara[/name]!
[name]Eleanora[/name] - I prefer [name]Eleanor[/name] personally.
[name]Eve[/name] - It’s ok.
[name]Hazel[/name] - [name]Love[/name]!
[name]Ivy[/name] - NMS.
[name]Jeanette[/name] - NMS.
[name]Jessamyn[/name] - Hate, sorry.
[name]Opal[/name] - Too old lady sounding.
[name]Vivian[/name] - [name]Love[/name]!
BOYS:
[name]Cyprian[/name] - [name]Don[/name]'t like.
[name]Cyrus[/name] - I can’t shake the association with [name]Miley[/name]/[name]Billy[/name] [name]Ray[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name] - It’s ok.
[name]Geoffrey[/name] - Prefer [name]Jeffrey[/name] personally.
[name]Henry[/name] - [name]Love[/name]!
[name]Hiram[/name] - NMS.
[name]Jude[/name] - [name]Love[/name]!
[name]Roscoe[/name] - [name]Don[/name]'t like, but I do like [name]Ross[/name].
[name]Silas[/name] - [name]Love[/name]!
[name]Yardley[/name] - [name]Don[/name]'t like at all.
Thank you all so much for your feedback. Would anyone happen to have some ideas on combinations, or new names to suggest? I am all ears!
Not sure of a “theme” you like, but I get an old-fashioned feel from the names you listed.
[name]Louisa[/name]/[name]Louise[/name]
[name]Gemma[/name]
[name]Scarlett[/name]
[name]Gloria[/name]
[name]Viola[/name]
[name]Iris[/name]
[name]Agnes[/name]
[name]Ruth[/name]
[name]Edie[/name] -could be a nn for [name]Edith[/name]
[name]Ada[/name]
[name]Isla[/name]
[name]Flora[/name]
[name]Alice[/name]
[name]Beatrice[/name]
[name]Esther[/name]
[name]Cora[/name]
[name]June[/name]
[name]Mabel[/name]
[name]Ophelia[/name]
[name]Hattie[/name]
[name]Thea[/name] -could be a nn for [name]Theodora[/name]
[name]Margeret[/name] nn [name]Maggie[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name]
[name]Sylvia[/name]/[name]Sylvie[/name]
[name]Pearl[/name]
[name]Tess[/name]
Here’s some others that I don’t hear often but still love:
[name]Philippa[/name] nn [name]Pippa[/name]
[name]Ailis[/name]
[name]Ailsa[/name]
[name]Anastasia[/name]
[name]Briar[/name]
[name]Romilly[/name]
[name]Romy[/name]
[name]Zara[/name]
[name]Elspeth[/name]
[name]Don[/name]'t even feel bad for not finding the perfect name yet! You have so much time left.
Of your names, I love [name]Hazel[/name], [name]Opal[/name], [name]Clare[/name], [name]Vivian[/name], [name]Ivy[/name] and [name]Jessamyn[/name] best for the girls and [name]Cyrus[/name], [name]Frederick[/name], [name]Jude[/name], and [name]Silas[/name] best for the boys. Basically I love most of your girls- lol!
I think [name]Clare[/name] [name]Susannah[/name] is a great combo. [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Norita[/name] is interesting. I think I like [name]Ivy[/name] [name]Eleanora[/name] better. [name]Opal[/name] [name]Katherine[/name] is a great combination too because [name]Katherine[/name] helps to ground [name]Opal[/name] a bit. I like both of your boy combos, [name]Cyrus[/name] [name]Victor[/name] and [name]Hiram[/name] [name]Joseph[/name] (I’m a big [name]Victor[/name] fan!) I don’t know if [name]Hiram[/name] is my fav name, but that’s mostly because I’m never 100% sure how to pronounce. it.
If I had to make some combinations using [name]Iris[/name], [name]Norita[/name], [name]Susannah[/name], [name]Kit[/name], or [name]Katherine[/name] — or [name]Michael[/name], [name]Victor[/name], or [name]Joseph[/name]-- I’d pick:
[name]Vivian[/name] [name]Kit[/name]
[name]Vivian[/name] [name]Iris[/name]
[name]Hazel[/name] [name]Katherine[/name]
[name]Hazel[/name] [name]Norita[/name]
[name]Jessamyn[/name] [name]Kit[/name]
[name]Jessamyn[/name] [name]Iris[/name]
[name]Ivy[/name] [name]Susannah[/name]
[name]Jude[/name] [name]Michael[/name]
[name]Frederick[/name] [name]Michael[/name]