I prefer the flow of [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_m]Rowland[/name_m]. I find [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_u]Rae[/name_u] [name_m]Rowland[/name_m] a little hard to say due to the two R sounds. Maybe [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f] would work better with your last name?
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] is beautiful! [name_u]Rae[/name_u] is cute, but does feel a little “trendy” and is a mouthful with [name_m]Rowland[/name_m]. Maybe [name_f]Maeve[/name_f]? I knew someone named [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Maeve[/name_f] and I’ve always loved her name. Anyways, I say between [name_u]Rae[/name_u] and [name_f]Grace[/name_f], go with [name_f]Grace[/name_f]! So lovely
I agree that with [name_u]Rae[/name_u] as a middle, it’s very R heavy. Unless it has significant meaning for you, I would find an alternative.
I like the suggestion of [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Mae[/name_f], [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Faye[/name_f], [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Maeve[/name_f].
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f] [name_m]Rowland[/name_m] is my pick, but without the last name I prefer [name_f]Scarlett[/name_f] [name_u]Rae[/name_u]