when my son was born we already had his name picked out…[name]Alexander[/name] Ikaika…but at the last minute i started to feel guilty about only following my familys tradition w/a hawaiian mn and not my husbands tradition which is to pass down the fathers first name as the child’s mn, so i threw in my hubbys tradition too ( my husband didnt mind whether i did or not)…and my son became [name]Alexander[/name] Ikaika [name]Jose[/name] plus our surname which is 3 syllables (a mouthful isnt it!) we got a lot of flack for giving him such a long name, so i thought i’d never do that again…but i dont want my son to feel like an oddball
so my question is should i give my baby girl due in feb. 2 middle names so she matches my son? my husbands family doesnt have a tradition for female middle names, it would only be to match my son. what do you think? i dont have the first mn decided yet, im thinking about a couple…if i do use a second mn should i use a spanish name to honor my hubby’s side or name her after a family member like my mom?
thank u in advance for reading this long post and for all your help!
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