[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there.
I love [name_u]Jude[/name_u]!
Here are my thoughts on your list:
[name_f]Ivy[/name_f]-This seems pretty perfect. It’s not my personal favorite, but it’s nice. It just reminds me of ‘I.V.’ sometimes.
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]-This also seems perfect for your criteria. It’s again, not my personal favorite, but I want to like it. It has lovely imagery.
[name_f]Lola[/name_f]-I think that this is kind of cute & spunky. It seems better as a nn in my opinion. I like [name_f]Eloisa[/name_f], [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] or [name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] nn [name_f]Lola[/name_f].
[name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]-I love it! It’s on the top of my list too, even though the popularity bothers me. It’s the perfect combination of sophisticated, feminine & kind. [name_u]Jude[/name_u] & [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f] personally make me see a Beatles vibe, which is fine with me! I was named after a Beatles song. But it’s something to consider.
[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]-This is adorable & I love it w/[name_u]Jude[/name_u] too. It’s simple yet not terribly over done. Sweet & girly, yet grows up well.
[name_f]Poppy[/name_f]-I don’t mind this, but it’s a bit nick-namey for my taste. I prefer [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] nn [name_f]Poppy[/name_f].
[name_f]Delilah[/name_f]-I’m not a huge fan of this name. It’s perfectly fine, but just seems a bit fussy.
[name_f]Scarlett[/name_f]-Hm. Same as above.
A few more ideas (sorry for any repeats):
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Cora[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Ellen[/name_f]
[name_f]Eve[/name_f]
[name_f]Fern[/name_f]
[name_f]Hazel[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilie[/name_f]
[name_f]Maia[/name_f]
[name_f]Maren[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f]
[name_f]Phoebe[/name_f]
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps. 