Sister for Max - still can't decide!

[name_m]Hi[/name_m] Everyone,

I am 8 weeks away from due date and we still don’t have any front runners for our girl’s name.

Our son is [name_u]Max[/name_u] [name_m]Claudio[/name_m] (last name starts with H and is quite long). [name_f]My[/name_f] DH is Polish/Iranian and I am Italian/Ukranian. We wanted a name that was somewhat ‘International’ but we aren’t stuck with that idea.

[name_f]My[/name_f] DH loves the name [name_f]Sofia[/name_f] - I like it too but I am a teacher and I have taught MANY Sophia/Sofia’s - again, nothing wrong with name, just very popular where we are. He seems to like names that are ‘girly and soft’

Names we have floated:

[name_f]Anna[/name_f] - its feminine and beautiful but is it too plain?

[name_u]Abby[/name_u] (Abigail) - We love [name_u]Abby[/name_u], not so much [name_f]Abigail[/name_f]

[name_f]Arianna[/name_f] - I love this name but he doesn’t like the nickname ‘Ari’

[name_f]Sadie[/name_f] - I worry that it’s too ‘cute’, but I do think it’s lovely

[name_f]Madelyn[/name_f] - I love this name but [name_u]Max[/name_u] and [name_f]Madelyn[/name_f] sound a bit too similar with both starting with ‘Ma’ sound - thoughts?

[name_f]Layla[/name_f] - we are both ‘meh’ on this.

Open to ideas or suggestions - thanks so much!

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[name_f]Vera[/name_f]
[name_f]Gaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Sienna[/name_f]
[name_f]Lena[/name_f]
[name_u]Jade[/name_u]
[name_f]Lucia[/name_f]
[name_f]Irina[/name_f]
[name_f]Alice[/name_f]
[name_f]Dalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_u]Zoe[/name_u]
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Olivia[/name_f]
[name_f]Diana[/name_f]
[name_f]Dora[/name_f]
[name_f]Alessia[/name_f]
[name_f]Belle[/name_f]
[name_f]Gianna[/name_f]
[name_f]Carolina[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f]
[name_f]Julia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lara[/name_f]
[name_u]Simone[/name_u]
[name_f]Adriana[/name_f]
[name_f]Zara[/name_f]
[name_f]Nadia[/name_f]
[name_f]Miriam[/name_f]
[name_f]Noemi[/name_f]
[name_f]Paloma[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamara[/name_f]
[name_f]Joana[/name_f]
[name_f]Marina[/name_f]
[name_f]Livia[/name_f]
[name_f]Ingrid[/name_f]
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]
[name_f]Vita[/name_f]
[name_f]Nina[/name_f]
[name_f]Rita[/name_f]
[name_f]Marta[/name_f]
[name_f]Silvia[/name_f]
[name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_f]Teresa[/name_f]
[name_f]Helga[/name_f]
[name_f]Lorena[/name_f]
[name_f]Gloria[/name_f]
[name_f]Aura[/name_f]
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
[name_f]Isabel[/name_f]
[name_f]Oriana[/name_f]
[name_f]Mila[/name_f]
[name_f]Amalia[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliana[/name_f]
[name_f]Flora[/name_f]
[name_f]Giada[/name_f]
[name_f]Erica[/name_f]
[name_f]Mara[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosa[/name_f]
[name_f]Anya[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilia[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_u]Mel[/name_u]
[name_f]Amaia[/name_f]
[name_f]Ines[/name_f]
[name_f]Bea[/name_f] - Bee-uh
[name_f]Amanda[/name_f]

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[name_u]Simone[/name_u] or [name_f]Simona[/name_f] spring to mind! :dancer:

[name_u]Or[/name_u] [name_f]Saskia[/name_f]? Both feel like wonderful uncommon but still international alternatives to [name_f]Sofia[/name_f].

Otherwise my favourite from your list is [name_f]Anna[/name_f] (perhaps paired with a more eye-catching middle, like [name_m]Claudio[/name_m], to balance out any “plainness”) and [name_f]Arianna[/name_f], which you could nickname Anna/Anya/Annie, or even [name_u]Abby[/name_u] with a B middle: [name_f]Arianna[/name_f] [name_f]Belle[/name_f] “Abby”, for example.

Max Claudio & _______:

Kateryna Ivy
Clio Amore
Irina Neve
Marina Madelyn
Elena Ruby
Alina Sadie
Liliya Blair
Lidiya Sloane
Nina Alice
Talia Tatum
Katya Daisy
Sasha Maisie
Mila Eden
Marnie Aurelia
Anastasia Colette “Anya”
Danica Lucy
Amalia June “Molly”
Cecily Aurora
Aurelia Maeve
Noemi Amata
Sienna Olive
Serafina Linnea
Liana Sage
Giada Noelle
Delia Aspen
Idalia Miriam
Sula Odette
Uma Ondine
Selah Imogene
Adina Esme
Zaida Vivienne
Octavia Estelle

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[name_f]Anna[/name_f] is wonderful - not too plain! [name_f]Sadie[/name_f] works too - I don’t think it’s too cutesy.

A few ideas with [name_u]Max[/name_u]:

[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
Lillian/Lilliana
[name_u]Ruby[/name_u]
[name_f]Clara[/name_f]
[name_f]Iris[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Nina[/name_f]
[name_f]Betsy[/name_f]

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[name_f]Helena[/name_f]
[name_f]Aurelia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Lyra[/name_f]
[name_f]Serena[/name_f] or [name_f]Selena[/name_f]
[name_f]Daisy[/name_f]
[name_f]Adela[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Liana[/name_f]
[name_u]Skye[/name_u]
[name_f]Soraya[/name_f]
[name_f]Thea[/name_f]
[name_u]Abilene[/name_u]

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Anna and Sofia are the best in this list. To be honest I feel like internationally Anna is less common for a girl. And you have nickname choices like Anya, Annie, Anouk.

Sadie is cute too. Arianna too is nice.

Ditto suggestion Irina Neve, it is awesome.

What about Clara, Frida, Luisa, Nora, Flora, Tamara, Emilia, Diana, Cordelia?

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For you I like [name_f]Madelyn[/name_f]! [name_u]Or[/name_u] even [name_f]Maddalena[/name_f] to give a more international flair. With [name_f]Maddy[/name_f] or [name_f]Lena[/name_f] as a nickname. [name_u]Max[/name_u] & [name_f]Maddy[/name_f] are similar, but I don’t think in a confusing way. They don’t sound the same when you shout them across the house.

I also really like [name_f]Sadie[/name_f]. Maybe she could be a [name_f]Sarah[/name_f] “Sadie” to avoid the cutesy-ness when she’s older.

Other suggestions:

[name_f]Mila[/name_f] - cute with [name_u]Max[/name_u] without sounding similar. Very international; very on trend
[name_f]Chloe[/name_f] - less common substitute for [name_f]Sophie[/name_f]?
[name_u]Cleo[/name_u] - trendier than [name_f]Chloe[/name_f], had to throw it out there. Goes great with [name_u]Max[/name_u].
[name_f]Lucia[/name_f] - Loo-see-ah, “Lucy”, international, cool, timeless
[name_f]Alessia[/name_f] - Very Italian/international, girly/soft but also a great name to age with.
[name_f]Elodie[/name_f] - feminine/soft, modern, could be a Ellie/Ella/Didi.
[name_f]Maya[/name_f] - [name_u]Max[/name_u] & [name_f]Maya[/name_f] are cool together, alternative to [name_f]Layla[/name_f].

good luck!

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sadie and max is such a cute sibset! i also do not think that sadie is too “cutesy”.
sadie + max reminds me of sadie sink (who also played max from stranger things) which isn’t a bad association.

siblings for max —

avery
bea
blair
elaine
elowyn
jenna
lyra
nora/norah
phoebe
sierra
stella
violet

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Elodie comes to mind, I also think you might like Daphne and/or Clara!
from your list I think Sadie is gorgeous with Max, not at all too cutesy ! Plus I think if you both like Abby you could go with that as a first name, I’ve met many girls named just Abby!

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I’m personally a much bigger fan of [name_f]Sophie[/name_f] rather than [name_f]Sophia[/name_f].

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I like [name_f]Anna[/name_f] & [name_f]Sadie[/name_f]!

[name_f]Soraya[/name_f]
[name_f]Sadiyah[/name_f] (NN Sadie)
[name_f]Fiona[/name_f]
[name_f]Adeline[/name_f]
[name_f]Adriana[/name_f]
[name_f]Hattie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lilah[/name_f]
[name_u]Sora[/name_u]
[name_f]Carissa[/name_f]

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[name_m]Hi[/name_m] there.

[name_u]Max[/name_u] [name_m]Claudio[/name_m] is dashing!

Here are my thoughts for a little sister:

Sofia-It’s beautiful and smart and elegant, but so so over done. I much prefer [name_f]Sofia[/name_f] for some reason; looks sleeker.

Anna-It’s lovely, and I guess it is kind of plain. But that’s not always a bad thing. It’s just classic.

[name_u]Abby[/name_u] (Abigail)-Super cute and charming and great with [name_u]Max[/name_u]. [name_f]Abigail[/name_f] is supposedly high on the SSA charts, but I rarely run across them in real life. If you don’t like [name_f]Abigail[/name_f] and just [name_u]Abby[/name_u], how about [name_u]Aberdeen[/name_u]? [name_u]Or[/name_u] maybe a bit of a stretch but I feel like [name_f]Arabella[/name_f], [name_f]Annabella[/name_f] or [name_f]Annabelle[/name_f] nn [name_u]Abby[/name_u] totally work.

Arianna-I feel like spelling and pronunciation with this name could be a headache. And it just feels a bit trendy. If you dh strongly dislike [name_u]Ari[/name_u], good to stay way from this. It may be hard to avoid.

Sadie-I like it. I don’t feel like it’s too nick-name-y on its own. I used to, but then I watched 11.22.63 mini series and the main character was an adult named [name_f]Sadie[/name_f] who wore the name beautifully.

Madelyn-I do feel like it’s a bit close to [name_u]Max[/name_u], but if this is the one, I don’t think the closeness is too close, you know?

Layla-Yeah, I’m meh on it too. Kind of trendy & over done.

A few other ideas-

[name_f]Audrey[/name_f]

[name_f]Anya[/name_f]

Cora(line)

[name_f]Delia[/name_f]

[name_f]Daphne[/name_f]

[name_f]Freya[/name_f]

[name_f]Flora[/name_f]

[name_f]Gemma[/name_f]

[name_f]Juliet[/name_f]

[name_f]Lucia[/name_f]

[name_f]Magnolia[/name_f]

[name_f]Nora[/name_f]

[name_f]Rosalie[/name_f]

[name_f]Rosalia[/name_f]

[name_f]Stella[/name_f]

[name_f]Tullia[/name_f]

[name_u]Vivian[/name_u]

[name_f]Hope[/name_f] this helps. :slight_smile:

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When I worked at a private school, there were so many Sofias/Sofies that is was rough. 4 girls with the same name was confusing.

My name is Anna, and though I DON’T hate it, I do find it boring and am a bit disappointed in it. Anna is meh but Arianna is lovely. If he doesn’t like the nickname Ari don’t use it, Aria is just one more letter and takes Ari from cute but boyish and transforms it into a feminine, fantasy-sounding nickname.

Names like Anna but more fancy:
Annabell/Annabelle/Annabella
Hannah
Annaliese/Annalise

Names like Arianna:
Aurelia
Arabella
Aurora

I love Madelyn. I feel like the Ma start matches nicely with Max but

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[name_f]Lila[/name_f]
[name_f]Addalyn[/name_f]
[name_f]Tayla[/name_f]
[name_f]Jayda[/name_f]
[name_f]Talia[/name_f]
[name_f]Ashlyn[/name_f]
[name_u]Loxley[/name_u]
[name_f]Ava[/name_f]
[name_u]Zoe[/name_u]
[name_f]Hope[/name_f]
[name_f]Skyla[/name_f]
[name_f]Kaia[/name_f]
[name_u]Ivy[/name_u]
[name_u]Willow[/name_u] [name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Adia[/name_f]
[name_f]Isla[/name_f]

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I have a grandson [name_u]Max[/name_u] and a granddaughter [name_f]Claire[/name_f]. They are siblings.

[name_f]Claire[/name_f] [name_f]Madelyn[/name_f]

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to be honest, max and sadie is just darling together!

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I love all these contenders as a little sister to [name_u]Max[/name_u] ! I adore [name_f]Anna[/name_f] and I think [name_f]Arianna[/name_f] could be shortened to [name_f]Anna[/name_f] . [name_f]Anna[/name_f] and [name_u]Max[/name_u] sound so effortless and timeless and chic together. I also feel they are international !

Clara/ [name_f]Klara[/name_f]
[name_f]Elena[/name_f]
Elin/ [name_f]Elinor[/name_f]
[name_f]Natasha[/name_f]
[name_f]Annika[/name_f] / [name_f]Annica[/name_f]
Lucille/ [name_f]Lucia[/name_f] / [name_f]Lucy[/name_f]
Katja/ [name_f]Katia[/name_f]
[name_f]Beatrice[/name_f]
[name_f]Nora[/name_f]

Out of your list my favorites are [name_f]Anna[/name_f] and [name_u]Abby[/name_u].

Of your list, I think my favorite is [name_f]Anna[/name_f]. I don’t think it’s too plain. It’s timeless and well-loved for a reason! And it’s probably the most “international” on your list.

Other ideas based on your list:

[name_f]Adalaide[/name_f]
Almetta
[name_f]Annie[/name_f]
[name_f]Bernice[/name_f]
[name_f]Deborah[/name_f]
[name_f]Dora[/name_f]
[name_f]Eliza[/name_f]
[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f]
[name_f]Emma[/name_f]
[name_f]Esther[/name_f]
[name_f]Eva[/name_f]
[name_f]Gertrude[/name_f]
[name_f]Hannah[/name_f]
[name_f]Helen[/name_f]
[name_u]Jessie[/name_u]
[name_f]Laura[/name_f]
[name_f]Lizzie[/name_f]
[name_f]Lydia[/name_f]
[name_f]Martha[/name_f]
[name_f]Mary[/name_f]
[name_f]Maude[/name_f]
[name_f]Maybelle[/name_f]
[name_f]Minnie[/name_f]
[name_f]Olive[/name_f]
[name_f]Pearl[/name_f]
[name_f]Prudence[/name_f]
[name_f]Rebecca[/name_f]
[name_f]Rose[/name_f]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f]
[name_f]Sallie[/name_f]
[name_f]Sarah[/name_f]

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