[name_m]Just[/name_m] wanted to suggest [name_f]Jo[/name_f] as a middle name! This would honor both [name_f]Joan[/name_f] and [name_m]Jose[/name_m], while also keeping with the tradition of a masculine middle name.
[name_f][/name_f]Also, if [name_f]Jo[/name_f] was used, I would then suggest a first name that you truly love as much as [name_f]Margot[/name_f].
Names I love along with [name_f]Margot[/name_f]:
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lucy[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lydia[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lily[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Hazel[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Ivy[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Sadie[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f] (nickname often for Sarah)
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Lyla[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Ava[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Annie[/name_f] [name_f]Jo[/name_f] (after [name_f]Ryann[/name_f] and Stephanie)