We just gave our little guy the same food we were eating anyway. We started at six months. I think avocado was the first thing we gave him, then sweet potato. We never did baby cereal, though I did give him regular oatmeal or grits when we were having it. We would sometimes mash things with a fork, but we never bothered blending anything.
This is how both sets of our parents did it, but as it turns out, this is an actual thing. It’s called [name_u]Baby[/name_u] Led Weaning. I love it b.c it was so much less work. He loved feeding himself and I loved not having to hover over him with a spoon.
The baby I watch eats pre-made purees, and to me, this is really a lot more work and just as much mess. There is, of course, nothing wrong with spoon feeding babies purees, do what works for you!
Our son eats and enjoys pretty everything we eat now. I can’t say that this is why, not having done things the other way, but I do think that feeding him everything we eat from the beginning helped with this.
We also never bothered with baby dishes. We gave him regular bowls and plates and things from the beginning. In two years of having food on breakable dishes, he has thrown one cup. It broke and I cleaned it up and it seemed to make a big enough impression that he has never thrown another. I did not yell at him about it or anything, but I guess once was enough. He is not a calm or cautious child, either. There is nothing wrong with baby dishes, I just didn’t really have room for a set of plastic everything in the cupboards.
We tried to skip the sippie cup. He could drink out of an open cup without assistance by 18 months, but we still do sippie cups b.c he will just dump out the liquid or stick his hand in the cup or dip his food in it… Ugh. We do give him an open cup at mealtimes so that he can practice.
The straw-type cups are supposed to be best for speech development and teeth, but he might not be able to use those right off. It takes some time for the baby to figure out how to use a cup, so you may want to start with the type that are closer to bottles, with the silicone spout.
For bibs, we loved these long sleeve bibs that tie in there back. We got them on amazon, I think ours are Bummis brand, but there are lots of different manufacturers for these. We started with those silicone bibs with the catcher pocket in the front, but he quickly figured out how to dump the pocket out, which made it sort of pointless. If it is warm enough though, I am a big fan of stripping the baby down to his diaper for mealtime.
I [name_u]LOVE[/name_u] the really simple $25 ikea high chair. There are no crevices for food to get stuck and you can hose that thing down. Babies can get high chairs unbelievably gross, so I would avoid anything with fabric or padding.