[name_f]Clara[/name_f] [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] is utterly gorgeous, but you should use whatever feels right to you.
I love your list, and I think we probably have a similar overall style. I really like names with weight, history, and powerful meanings. At the same time, nature themes are very important to me, and I love the lightness of flower/botany names. Overall I want the combo to be recognizable as a name (an extremely subjective requirement, but oh well), easy to spell and remember.
It’s not a simple order to fill! When you throw in other people’s criticisms as well, it becomes nearly impossible. My advice to you would be to make a list of possibles and share them with just your boyfriend. Narrow it down to a few to choose from at the time of birth, based on events or what feels right. And don’t share said list with anyone (except us, maybe 
). It’s your baby, and this name is your precious gift to her-- no one else’s.
[name_m]Don[/name_m]'t worry about things like teasing; you are obviously a thoughtful and conscientious namer. I really really doubt you’d saddle her with anything that’d be detrimental in life. [name_f]Hazel[/name_f] is about as teasing-proof as they come these days.
Now that I’ve got my lecturing out of the way 
I offer hugs, elaborations on your choices, and a few of my own favorites.
[name_f]Amaryllis[/name_f] - one of my favorites for a winter or [name_u]Christmas[/name_u] baby; the meaning “to sparkle” is just gorgeous, and the associated Greek myth is pretty, if bloody. In the late 19th century, [name_f]Marilla[/name_f] was used as a short form/given name to reference [name_f]Amaryllis[/name_f]. ([name_f]Marilla[/name_f] is a main character in the [name_f]Anne[/name_f] of [name_u]Green[/name_u] Gables books.) I love possible nicknames [name_f]Amy[/name_f] (which means loved) and [name_f]Rilla[/name_f].
[name_f]Charis[/name_f] - said exactly the same as [name_f]Carys[/name_f]/[name_f]Cerys[/name_f], but this is a Greek name referring to one of the three Graces, and also referring to the concept of charity/love/kindness in general.
[name_f]Alina[/name_f] - “bright” is one meaning, but this is a name with many many potential origins - Arabic, [name_m]German[/name_m], Slavic - potentially all different names that wound up in the same package. It has a beautiful, light sound. According to the comments on behindthename.com, it is also Romanian for “to heal, soothe” (especially in an emotional context). Incidentally, [name_f]Eleanor[/name_f]/[name_f]Alienor[/name_f] may have come from a similar root (again, to heal/soothe), though that’s just one of many potential origins.
[name_f]Alina[/name_f] [name_f]Hazel[/name_f]? It can also be the short form of [name_f]Adelina[/name_f], little noble one.
Other ideas:
[name_f]Briony[/name_f] - a flower/plant name which came into use a couple of hundred years ago, I believe?; it refers to a medicinal Eurasian vine. The Greek root means “to swell,” which is quite sensual and makes me think of swelling with joy, strength.
[name_u]Juniper[/name_u] - mentioned already, but I like it because it’s associated with protection ([name_f]Mary[/name_f] and [name_m]Joseph[/name_m] rested under a juniper tree with baby [name_m]Jesus[/name_m] on their flight from Bethlehem). Also a wintry kind of tree, and very useful. Cute nn possibilities.
[name_f]Isadora[/name_f] - sounds more typical for your boyfriend’s sake, but it means “gift of [name_f]Isis[/name_f]”
[name_f]Helene[/name_f]/[name_f]Helena[/name_f] - meaning usually given as “light,” but Wiktionary gives it as “light, torch, corposant.” I didn’t know what corposant meant, so I looked it up. Apparently corposant refers to [name_m]Saint[/name_m] [name_m]Elmo[/name_m]'s fire, one of those crazy and beautiful light phenomena: a vivid blue-violet aura that envelops pointed objects, like the mast of a ship or a blade of grass, when the atmosphere is highly charged. The name may also be linked to Greek [name_f]Selene[/name_f] or moon & was worn by the classic [name_f]Helen[/name_f] of [name_m]Troy[/name_m] and by [name_m]Saint[/name_m] [name_f]Helena[/name_f], mother of [name_u]Constantine[/name_u].
[name_f]Rowena[/name_f] - meaning uncertain; I’ve seen “famous friend,” “fame + joy,” or a feminization of [name_u]Rowan[/name_u]. I like it because the rowan tree is laden with positive associations; it’s symbolic of protection/guidance for travelers and also for the comforts of home. It bears lovely red berries that often linger on the tree until winter, at least around here.
[name_f]Jessamy[/name_f]/[name_f]Jessamine[/name_f] ([name_f]Amy[/name_f], [name_f]Mina[/name_f]) - derived from the Persian name [name_f]Jasmine[/name_f], which means ‘gift from God’; jasmine is a beautiful night-blooming flower which provides tea, fragrance, and flavoring; symbol of grace, attachment, and sensuality
[name_f]Annora[/name_f] or [name_f]Honora[/name_f] ([name_f]Nora[/name_f]) - from honor; one of the oldest virtue names, in use since at least the Middle Ages; the sound also corresponds to Arabic an nura or the light; my favorite way to get to [name_f]Nora[/name_f]
[name_f]Rosemary[/name_f] or [name_f]Rosemarie[/name_f] - herb name derived from Latin ‘dew of the sea’; a favorite herb for cooking; bears beautiful blue flowers; figures in both Greek and [name_m]Christian[/name_m] ([name_u]Marian[/name_u]) imagery; in Medieval times, linked to weddings, love, and strong women
[name_f]Fauna[/name_f]/[name_f]Faunia[/name_f] ([name_f]Nia[/name_f]) - to befriend; [name_m]Roman[/name_m] goddess associated with wooded places, divination, and nurturing; a kind fairy in Disney’s Sleeping Beauty; sounds like the word for a baby deer; to any biologist, fauna will refer to all the Animalia of a given region
[name_f]Maple[/name_f] - such beautiful colors in autumn, and tapped for delicious sap in late winter, not long after your little one will be born
[name_f]Plum[/name_f] - a fruit tree name; ancient domesticated fruit; plum blossoms are beloved and symbolic in Chinese culture; linked with winter and the coming of spring; fruit has traditional medicinal and culinary uses
[name_f]Talia[/name_f] or [name_f]Thalia[/name_f] - Hebrew ‘gentle dew from heaven’ and Greek for ‘to blossom’, respectively; Greek [name_f]Thalia[/name_f] was the muse of comedy and pastoral poetry; also the name of one of the three Graces; [name_f]Talia[/name_f] happens to mean ‘baby sheep’ in Arabic; may also be a short form of [name_f]Natalia[/name_f], or [name_u]Christmas[/name_u] [name_u]Day[/name_u]
Chrysanthe - golden flower/[name_f]October[/name_f] flower
[name_u]Damaris[/name_u] - meaning uncertain, given sometimes as ‘dominant woman’ (for the strong woman theme); also linked to a Celtic goddess [name_f]Damara[/name_f], about whom very little is known (perhaps a spring goddess of nurturing, love, children), but the Celtic word means ‘gentle.’ I love that duality of meaning. [name_f]Lily[/name_f] [name_u]Damaris[/name_u] is a GP of mine because [name_f]Lily[/name_f] is too common for me to use as FN, but [name_u]Damaris[/name_u] can be rather tough to pair.
[name_f]Delphine[/name_f]/[name_f]Delfina[/name_f]/[name_f]Delphina[/name_f] - relating to dolphins, or “from [name_f]Delphi[/name_f]” - since [name_f]Delphi[/name_f] means “womb,” that’d be “from the womb” There is also a flower called delphinium with gorgeous blue blooms, said to look like dolphins leaping off the plant.
[name_f]Evangeline[/name_f] ([name_f]Evie[/name_f]) - good news; used by [name_m]Longfellow[/name_m] in his gorgeous epic poem [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f], a love story about [name_f]Acadia[/name_f]
[name_f]Acadia[/name_f] ([name_f]Cady[/name_f]) - idyllic place; [name_m]French[/name_m] name for [name_f]Nova[/name_f] [name_f]Scotia[/name_f]
[name_f]Ariella[/name_f] - lioness of god
[name_f]Lorelei[/name_f] - murmuring rock, also a tragic water spirit
[name_f]Maeve[/name_f] - she who intoxicates; the legendary Irish [name_f]Queen[/name_f] [name_f]Maeve[/name_f] demanded that her wealth be equal to that of her husband’s, and started a cattle raid when it was not; also linked to the fairy queen
[name_f]Niamh[/name_f]/[name_f]Neve[/name_f] - former version is Irish for bright; the latter may either be an Anglicized version or from the Latin nivem, meaning snow; in Irish legend, [name_f]Niamh[/name_f] was the daughter of the sea god and lover of the hero-poet [name_m]Oisin[/name_m]
[name_f]Ruth[/name_f] - compassionate friend (the sound just feels strong to me)
[name_f]Magdalen[/name_f]/[name_f]Magdalena[/name_f], as already mentioned, with nn’s [name_f]Maggie[/name_f] or [name_f]Lena[/name_f]
[name_f]Serafina[/name_f] - fiery one
[name_f]Sunniva[/name_f] - sun gift, Norwegian form of Old English elements; patron saint of western Norway— [name_f]Sunniva[/name_f] was an Irish princess who fled to Norway and hid in a cave with her [name_m]Christian[/name_m] followers
[name_m]Will[/name_m] edit to add more in a bit!
