If I were to pick names that most closely meet every single one of your rules, these are your best matches:
[name_f][/name_f]Top 5
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Ronan[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Tiernan[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Torin[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_m]Callum[/name_m]
[name_f][/name_f][name_f]Arden[/name_f]
[name_f][/name_f]Also great: [name_m]Cavan[/name_m], [name_m]Oran[/name_m], [name_m]Soren[/name_m], [name_m]Lachlan[/name_m], [name_m]Bowen[/name_m]