Wow, thank you for the responses, everybody! I really needed that!
I’ll definitely take your advice and hold off on sharing names with family/friends until these little ones are in my arms. Cannot wait to meet sweet [name_f]Violet[/name_f] and [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] 
It’s great to hear you’re sticking to your guns and using the names you love. [name_f]Violet[/name_f] and [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] sound stunning; separate and together :). Good luck!