[name]Love[/name] [name]Julia[/name] and [name]James[/name] as a sibset 
Another one who likes [name]Elizabeth[/name] - [name]Eliza[/name]. I don’t see how he couldn’t like [name]Eliza[/name] if he likes [name]Elizabeth[/name], but go figure ([name]Eliza[/name] spent time on our list, but we went with [name]Vivian[/name].)
Also, if you like [name]Tessa[/name] (which I adore) would he be amenable to something like [name]Theresa[/name]? It’s classic, like his list suggests, but gives the [name]Tessa[/name] nickname.
What about [name]Jocelyn[/name]? [name]Emilia[/name]? [name]Valeria[/name]?
On your list I prefer [name]Eliza[/name] and [name]Clara[/name]. From your husband’s list I really like [name]Juliet[/name] and [name]Veronica[/name].
I have a friend named [name]Veronica[/name] and it suits her very well, we call her by the nn [name]Vero[/name] and V (maybe with the use of a nickname it would help you think of it as less frilly).
Good luck! I’m sure y’all will find a perfect name!
I find your styles to be very similar. I love [name]Clara[/name] ( I have a little [name]Clara[/name]), [name]Juliet[/name], [name]Charlotte[/name], [name]Elizabeth[/name], [name]Amelia[/name]. Here are a few more:
[name]Anne[/name]
[name]Alice[/name]
[name]Scarlett[/name]
[name]Eliza[/name]