I don’t think you all are too far apart-- you both seem to like classic sorts of names-- he likes longer and more traditional and you like shorter and more unusual. Maybe you could use one for the fn and one for the mn or use a longer one that he likes with a nn that you like. For instance-- [name]Anya[/name] [name]Elizabeth[/name], [name]Verity[/name] [name]Alexandra[/name], [name]Eliza[/name] [name]Verity[/name], or [name]Alexandra[/name] nn [name]Xena[/name], [name]Elizabeth[/name] nn [name]Bette[/name], etc. Also, what about [name]Alessandra[/name] nn [name]Essa[/name]-- kind of close to [name]Alexandra[/name] and Estha.
Instead of
[name]Verity[/name] - [name]Vera[/name], [name]Vivian[/name], [name]Viveca[/name], [name]Vida[/name], [name]Viviana[/name], [name]Avis[/name], [name]Amity[/name], [name]Aminta[/name]
[name]Cleo[/name] - [name]Chloe[/name], [name]Zoe[/name], [name]Phoebe[/name], [name]Esme[/name], [name]Claire[/name], [name]Clara[/name], [name]Colette[/name], [name]Celia[/name], [name]Delia[/name], [name]Delilah[/name]
Estha (I’m not familiar with this one-- it seems more like a nn to me) - [name]Esme[/name], [name]Esther[/name], [name]Etta[/name], [name]Eloisa[/name], [name]Essie[/name], [name]Eartha[/name]
[name]Martha[/name] - [name]Marta[/name], [name]Mara[/name], [name]Moira[/name], [name]Maeve[/name], [name]Marina[/name], [name]May[/name], [name]Mabel[/name]/[name]Maybelle[/name], [name]Amabel[/name], [name]Greta[/name], [name]Margaret[/name], [name]Marguerite[/name], [name]Margot[/name], [name]Ramona[/name] , [name]Agatha[/name]
[name]Amelie[/name] (nn [name]Millie[/name]) - [name]Amelia[/name], [name]Sophia[/name], [name]Julia[/name], [name]Aurelia[/name], [name]Thalia[/name], [name]Cecilia[/name], [name]Cecily[/name], [name]Lillian[/name], [name]Millicent[/name], [name]Milla[/name], [name]Camilla[/name], [name]Camille[/name], [name]Melisande[/name], [name]Emilia[/name]
[name]Anya[/name] - [name]Annelise[/name], [name]Annika[/name], [name]Sonya[/name], [name]Freya[/name], [name]Fiona[/name], [name]Eva[/name], [name]Soraya[/name], [name]Tanya[/name]/[name]Tania[/name], [name]Nadia[/name], [name]Natalie[/name], [name]Natalia[/name]
[name]Elizabeth[/name]: [name]Elisabet[/name], [name]Elspeth[/name], [name]Lisbeth[/name], [name]Isobel[/name], [name]Isadora[/name], [name]Bettina[/name], [name]Bethany[/name], [name]Liza[/name], [name]Eliza[/name], [name]Isolde[/name], [name]Adeliza[/name], [name]Emmeline[/name]
[name]Cassandra[/name]: [name]Helena[/name], [name]Imogen[/name], [name]Daphne[/name], [name]Minerva[/name] (nn [name]Minnie[/name]), [name]Clementine[/name], [name]Catherine[/name], [name]Cordelia[/name], [name]Corinne[/name], [name]Cora[/name], [name]Coralie[/name], [name]Constance[/name]
[name]Alexandra[/name]: [name]Adelaide[/name], [name]Adeline[/name], [name]Arabella[/name], [name]Xanthe[/name], [name]Alice[/name]
[name]Sydney[/name]: [name]Avery[/name], [name]Eden[/name], [name]Elodie[/name], [name]Sidonie[/name], [name]Matilda[/name], [name]Thisbe[/name]
[name]Aurora[/name]
[name]Avis[/name]
[name]Beatrix[/name]
[name]Caroline[/name] nn [name]Callie[/name]
[name]Claire[/name]
[name]Daphne[/name]
[name]Dorothea[/name]
[name]Ellen[/name]
[name]Eleanor[/name]
[name]Felice[/name]
[name]Felicity[/name]
[name]Fiona[/name]
[name]Gemma[/name]
[name]Georgina[/name], [name]Georgiana[/name]
[name]Hazel[/name]
[name]Helen[/name]
[name]Honor[/name]/[name]Honora[/name]
[name]Jane[/name]
[name]Josephine[/name] nn [name]Josie[/name]
[name]Matilda[/name]
[name]Miranda[/name]
[name]Miriam[/name]
[name]Nadine[/name]
[name]Naomi[/name]
[name]Octavia[/name]
Otillie
[name]Phoebe[/name]
[name]Ramona[/name]
[name]Roxanne[/name]
[name]Rosemary[/name]
[name]Sybilla[/name]
[name]Sylvie[/name]/[name]Sylvia[/name]
[name]Thais[/name]
[name]Thea[/name]
[name]Theodora[/name]
[name]Vanessa[/name] (nn [name]Nessie[/name])