Hello! Not currently TTC but have been talking about it more with my SO. I’m curious if you were team green (not knowing the sex) or if you found out the sex prior to their birth.
I’m curious because in theory it seems like something I’d want to do. I’m highly aware of gender stereotypes and already know I want to minimize those things going in. Like it or not pink and blue are often gendered colors for babies so I’d likely only purchase things in nature based colors, which are my favorite anyways (greens, yellows, orange, browns, mauve, etc) to 1. Make the items usable for any child and 2. [name_m]Just[/name_m] because I prefer those colors anyways.
Anyways sorry I’m rambling. [name_f]My[/name_f] SO thinks team green is the way to go but I worry that I’ll feel less connected or secure having less information about what’s happening.
What was your experience? Did you always find out or just with one? Did that differ? I’m very curious! Also would love any insight from those who thought they’d struggle with the lack of control in the whole process.