🪻 The Name That…

… you could never grow tired of / still excites you
… you loved first
… you’ve just begun to love
… you could never quite like
… you cannot use because of a relative
… that you can’t find a middle name for…

don’t let the discussions get heated over the fourth one, please <3 we all have our own reasons, be it synesthesia, the sound, or simply just a personal reason (hello, [name_f]Estella[/name_f] :smiling_face_with_tear:)

you know the drill!! you can do girls and/or boys, or unisex! the more the merrier! i’m excited to read everyone’s responses, and if anyone wants to help one another find a middle name for the last ones, go for it! :bouquet: it’s almost the new year, and maybe i’ll do one every year to see how our tastes have changed <3

xx georgie

→ i’ll post mine below!

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Could never get tired of: [name_f]Isadora[/name_f]
I loved first: [name_f]Sophia[/name_f]
I’ve just begun to love: Breyer
I could never really like: [name_f]Guinevere[/name_f] or [name_f]Luna[/name_f]
Can’t use due to a relative: [name_f]Malika[/name_f]
Cannot find a middle for: [name_u]Royce[/name_u]

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:bouquet: [name_u]Daniel[/name_u] / [name_m]Dan[/name_m] / [name_u]Danny[/name_u] and [name_f]Lucy[/name_f]

→ I love their meaning both in general and to me, but the sound of all of them, especially [name_u]Danny[/name_u] and [name_f]Lucy[/name_f], just excites me so much it’s unreal! Daniel’s also a sage green color to me, and it’s so relaxing to see, whereas [name_m]Dan[/name_m] and [name_u]Danny[/name_u] are burnt orange and brown, and feel so autumnal! Lucy’s my little light and such a flowery name it almost feels like the name of a plant!

:bouquet: [name_f]Emily[/name_f] / [name_f]Violet[/name_f] and [name_u]Jack[/name_u]

→ Arguably, the first name I used (on a doll, of course) was [name_f]Rosie[/name_f]. But that was truly only because of Caillou’s sister. To me, little baby girls were named [name_f]Rosie[/name_f]. So while I count [name_f]Rosie[/name_f] as my first name, the first doll I named on my own, no strings/reasons attached, was [name_f]Emily[/name_f]. And after I had my whole collection of Barbies, my favorite doll’s name I changed to [name_f]Violet[/name_f]. I changed, in fact, nearly every toy’s name to [name_f]Violet[/name_f]. I never liked boys names, either, but [name_u]Jack[/name_u] is the first I remember liking. x

:bouquet: [name_f]Lavinia[/name_f]

→ sweet and strong [name_f]Lavinia[/name_f], I’ve liked her very recently (maybe 4-5 days?!) but I know she’s a keeper! I was bored and my brother had The Loud House on, and I began naming my own L clan… one of which was [name_f]Lavinia[/name_f], and I just instantly fell in love with it. Of course, I’d heard it before, but something just clicked!

(if you’d asked me this a week ago, I’d have said [name_f]Melina[/name_f] :white_heart:)

:bouquet: [name_m]Crispin[/name_m]

→ I do not like ā€œCrā€ names. I’ll just say it flat out. (hides behind blanket because I like [name_f]Christiana[/name_f]) But while I can tolerate the variants a la [name_f]Christine[/name_f], something’s just so off to me about [name_m]Crispin[/name_m]. I’m not sure if it’s the ā€œcrispā€ sound, or hereditary, because my mom doesn’t like it either :sob:

:bouquet: [name_f]Celia[/name_f] and [name_m]Kevin[/name_m]

→ Okay, so, arguably, I do like [name_m]Kevin[/name_m]. I know he’s not appealing to the vast majority, but I do like him. But I have an Uncle [name_m]Kevin[/name_m] who, while I do enjoy his company, is very old and has been around long enough for everyone to assume I’d be honoring him, which I wouldn’t.
→ And… I’m not even technically related to this [name_f]Celia[/name_f]. But my aunt is, and Miss [name_f]Celia[/name_f] is a very interesting person to say the least. We do like her loads, but she’s more just [name_f]Celia[/name_f] and, like [name_m]Kevin[/name_m], not a person I’m keen to honor.

:bouquet: the mighty miss [name_f]Melina[/name_f]

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[name_u]Royce[/name_u]

a few I’ve had/liked for [name_u]Royce[/name_u] in the past if you’d like xx

[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_f]Madeline[/name_f]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_u]Kelly[/name_u]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_f]Violet[/name_f]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_f]Katherine[/name_f]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_u]Mackenzie[/name_u]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_f]Elaine[/name_f]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_f]Estelle[/name_f]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_u]Marin[/name_u] / [name_f]Maren[/name_f]
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] Eliza(beth)
[name_u]Royce[/name_u] [name_f]Rhiannon[/name_f]

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you could never grow tired of / still excites you

[name_f]Isla[/name_f]! She’s not one of my top names, but I do love [name_f]Isla[/name_f] and even though I have known many people with this name, it always sounds fresh and tropical with holiday vibes!

… you loved first

Marian/Marion in childhood (evolving in the last 10 years into Marianne)

… you’ve just begun to love

[name_u]Bertie[/name_u]

… you could never quite like

Never quite like more: [name_f]Willa[/name_f], [name_f]Evangeline[/name_f]

… you cannot use because of a relative

[name_f]Lyra[/name_f] because it’s already being used!

… that you can’t find a middle name for…

[name_f]Marianne[/name_f] - what two middles would she have had if I’d had a daughter?!

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Could never grow tired of:
[name_f]Chava[/name_f] & Hayati

Loved first:
Yamuna

[name_m]Just[/name_m] begun to love:
Shiraz (I’ve always liked this name but I truly fell in love with it a few days ago! Now I think it’s one of the most beautiful names I’ve ever heard!)

Never could quite like:
[name_f]Julia[/name_f] (it does have a pretty sound but I have negative associations!)

Cannot use because of a relative:
none that I can think of!!

Can’t find a middle name for:
[name_f]Ayelet[/name_f]

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this is such a good idea!!

i could never get tired of finnegan and nolan, they’re just so perfect!! i love softer names for boys, and these are great

the name i loved first was rhodes! i forgot how i discovered it, but it was actually the name that led me to nameberry! i was like researching it one day and found nameberry!

a name i’ve just begun to love is tarka, introduced to me by the lovely @daisymeadows !!

i could never quite like daniel :smiling_face_with_tear: it’s the name of someone who i really don’t like, and it’s sad bc i feel like if it weren’t for him i would love the name!

i can’t think of any names that i can’t use because of a relative rn! i don’t really like any of my relatives’ names :smiling_face_with_tear:

i can’t find a middle name for august (b) !! he’s not my absolute favorite name anymore, but especially when he was, there just weren’t any names that i liked with him :sob:

i just realized that i did all boy names :sweat_smile::sweat_smile:

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… you could never grow tired of / still excites you

[name_u]Rafe[/name_u] on nameberry and [name_f]Ellie[/name_f], [name_m]Luke[/name_m] & [name_m]Jacob[/name_m] in real life!

… you loved first

[name_m]Thomas[/name_m] :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

… you’ve just begun to love

[name_f]Greta[/name_f]

… you could never quite like

[name_f]Sylvie[/name_f]

… you cannot use because of a relative

[name_u]William[/name_u]

… that you can’t find a middle name for…

[name_m]Jago[/name_m] doesn’t have a middle that’s stuck around for a while on my list!

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fun!

… you could never grow tired of / still excites you
→ Theodore is a name that i’ve always liked, and although i’d never use it (it’s just too popular!). i don’t think i’ll ever grow tired of seeing it

… you loved first
→ Amadea! i have no idea where i first heard it, but i immediately loved it since it was italian and it has such a nice sound.

… you’ve just begun to love
→ Ingrid! it’s a name that i liked well enough for a long time, but recently i’ve been really loving it.

… you could never quite like
→ i totally agree with you on Crispin :sweat_smile: the same goes for Isla

… that you can’t find a middle name for
→ Andromeda! i feel like it’s impossible to find a middle that pairs well and sounds good

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So cute, I love reading everyone’s replies on these sorts of threads.

Mine:

→ You could never grow tired of…

[name_f]Dahlia[/name_f]! It still has the same spunky, feminine flare that it did almost ten years ago. If I ever decide I don’t like [name_f]Dahlia[/name_f], then I’ve likely been replaced by a doppelgƤnger!

→ You loved first…

[name_f]Leonie[/name_f]! When I was first getting into names as a hobby, I found [name_f]Leonie[/name_f] simply charming. She’s still in my top 5 for girls. Its one of those names I don’t talk about much. However, if I ever have children, it wouldn’t surprise me if [name_f]Leonie[/name_f] becomes a sudden contender for a girl!

→ You’ve just begun to love…

[name_f]Sylvia[/name_f]! I’ve always liked [name_f]Sylvia[/name_f], but recently it’s skyrocketed into my top 5. After a year away from Nameberry and names, it just suddenly seems so fresh and fun to me.

→ You could never quite like…

[name_u]Sage[/name_u]! On paper, it ticks all the criteria for a name I should love: honours someone special to me (my goddaughter’s middle name is Sage), nature themed, easy to spell, cute meaning, and letters I like. I just have never quite come around to it!

→ You cannot use because of a relative…

Does my partner count? Their name is [name_m]Tobias[/name_m], which has always been a name I’ve adored. It was actually one of the reasons I was initially attracted to them… Oops.

→ That you can’t find a middle name for…

[name_u]Jasper[/name_u]! It’s the only boy name that I really like at the moment - so finding a middle name is difficult!

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  1. [name_u]Leo[/name_u]
  2. [name_f]Lily[/name_f]
  3. [name_f]Dahlia[/name_f]
  4. [name_m]Luke[/name_m] and [name_u]Phoenix[/name_u] - I should love them, but I knew people in high school that I really didn’t like with these names.
  5. [name_u]Milo[/name_u] and [name_u]Bennett[/name_u]
  6. [name_f]Estelle[/name_f], [name_f]Liliana[/name_f], [name_f]Oriana[/name_f], Eliana… there are so many :frowning:
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  • [name_f]Annie[/name_f] and [name_u]Henry[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Juliet[/name_f] and [name_m]Oliver[/name_m]
  • [name_u]Dana[/name_u] and [name_u]Leander[/name_u]
  • [name_f]Penelope[/name_f] and [name_m]Silas[/name_m]
  • [name_f]Theresa[/name_f] and [name_m]Matthew[/name_m]
  • [name_f]Frances[/name_f] and [name_m]Caspian[/name_m]
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Could never get tired of: [name_f]Margot[/name_f] and [name_u]Julien[/name_u]

Name I loved first: [name_f]Olivia[/name_f] and [name_u]James[/name_u]

That I begun to love: [name_f]Louisa[/name_f] and [name_m]Ivan[/name_m]

I could never quite like: [name_f]Eliza[/name_f]

Cannot use bc relative: [name_f]Cecilia[/name_f] and [name_f]Isabel[/name_f]

Can’t find a middle for: [name_f]Margot[/name_f]

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You could never grow tired of/ still excites you: [name_f]Luna[/name_f] & Luna-Rose

Names come and go from my favor, but [name_f]Luna[/name_f] & longer form Luna-Rose have what I believe is a permanent place. This is my top name for a girl and the name of my imaginary daughter.

You loved first: [name_f]Ebonique[/name_f]

I just found this one and it was love at first sight. It was like it was glowing amongst the other names it was near. It’s almost too beautiful to belong in this world, which is why I won’t use it for my daughter. It just doesn’t feel like a modern human name to me.

You've just begun to love: [name_f]Mercedes[/name_f]

At first, I looked at it and said ā€œnopeā€. Then, slowly, the realization came that my only reason for feeling that way was that it’s a car brand. But it was a name before that. And it could be again. Not a first name, I wouldn’t do that to my kid. But as a middle name. Specifically for Luna-Rose.

You could never quite like: [name_u]Luxury[/name_u] & [name_u]Messiah[/name_u]

I like the sound of both of these. However, I feel that [name_u]Luxury[/name_u] is a bit degrading, considering it is a word often used to describe possessions. And it just doesn’t seem right to me to name a child [name_u]Messiah[/name_u], for multiple reasons. Also, both of these seem like prime bullying opportunities.

You cannot use because of a relative: [name_f]Cheryl[/name_f], [name_u]David[/name_u], [name_u]Jesse[/name_u], [name_f]Debbie[/name_f], and [name_m]Kenneth[/name_m]

These are all people that I would honor over my dead body. I don’t even think of most of them as family anymore and my association with their names is so negative that no amount of things I like about the names themselves could make me use them for a child or even a pet.

That you can't find a middle name for: None in particular right now

[name_f]My[/name_f] own favorite Luna-Rose would have been here, had it not been for [name_f]Mercedes[/name_f] and [name_f]Saoirse[/name_f]. They created the combo of my dreams, Luna-Rose [name_f]Mercedes[/name_f] [name_f]Saoirse[/name_f] [name_f]Ann[/name_f].

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… you could never grow tired of / still excites you
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u] and [name_u]Zephyr[/name_u]

… you loved first
[name_u]Aspen[/name_u] and [name_u]Cody[/name_u]

… you’ve just begun to love
[name_f]Zosia[/name_f] / Zasha and [name_m]Aatos[/name_m]

… you could never quite like
boy names with a history

… you cannot use because of a relative
[name_f]Korra[/name_f] and [name_m]Finlo[/name_m]

… that you can’t find a middle name for…
Mosaic and [name_u]Oakley[/name_u]

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could never grow tired of… imogen and lewis!
→ they’ve both been on my list forever and i love them just as much now as ever. imogen especially i feel i will never not like.

loved first… mia and evan
→ arguably i liked isabella first, but mia was the first name i really truly loved, she’s so meaningful and for years i could not picture myself without a little mia. evan is strong, steady and dependable and i fell in love straightaway. both are still on my list, though evan is as a nickname for evander.

just begun to love… aderyn and spencer
→ i’ve been in a big name rut so ā€˜just’ is more like 5 months ago but i adore the sound of aderyn and the potential for addie as a nickname. i’ve been leaning into more modern, surname-names for boys and when going through lists spencer struck me as just my type!

could never quite like… nora and lachlan
→ i have quite a bad association with nora and i’ve never particularly liked the ā€˜oar’ sound in names. lachlan feels like the name of every other teenage guy i know, and i never really loved the sound before another bad association developed.

can’t use due to a relative… matilda and robert
→ i probably wouldn’t use matilda due to popularity anyway but my cousin tilly has made that certain. robert was my great-grandfather’s name but i never knew him well enough to honour him, and using robert would seem like it was an honour.

can’t find a middle name for… evie and jasper
→ this could easily have gone to imogen or mia again (or basically any name on my list) but i’m struggling with evie so much - nothing feels just right! i don’t think i’ve ever really had a jasper combo i’m completely happy with, and i feel as though i like lots of boys names but love very few, which is making it even more difficult than usual!

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The name that I could never grow tired of - [name_m]Theodore[/name_m].
The name that I loved first - [name_f]Adalynn[/name_f].
The name that I’ve just begun to love - [name_m]Coriolanus[/name_m].
The name that I could never quite like - [name_u]Tristan[/name_u].
The name that I cannot use because of a relative - [name_m]Ambrose[/name_m].
The name that I cannot find a middle name for - [name_u]Arrow[/name_u].

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… you could never grow tired of / still excites you

marnie :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: she’s been a staple on my list for so long ! for me she ticks so many boxes: easy to pronounce, uncommon and a pleasant association !

… you loved first

seraphina and sebastian for sure, i still love them too ! :relieved:

… you’ve just begun to love

loel ! i think it has a unique sound and this studious, melancholy vibe that i find so intruiging, as well as nickname ā€˜lou’ :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

… you could never quite like

peregrine and margaret …:persevere: i can’t picture peregrine on a real person, and i associate the margaret name family with old ladies :sweat_smile:

… you cannot use because of a relative

i can’t think of any, actually

… that you can’t find a middle name for…

eseld ! she’s a new love of mine, but i can’t seem to pair her with anything that matches the right vibe :smiling_face_with_tear:

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[name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f] … I could never grow tired of
[name_u]Sunny[/name_u] … I loved first
[name_u]Ellis[/name_u] … I’ve just begun to love
[name_f]Aurelia[/name_f] … I could never quite like
[name_u]Jack[/name_u] … I cannot use because of a relative
[name_f]Beloved[/name_f] … which I can’t find a middle name for (that is also an honor!!!)

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LITERALLY same… my cousin [name_f]Tilly[/name_f] is very unpleasant :joy: if it wasn’t for her I may have used [name_f]Matilda[/name_f] though… :face_with_diagonal_mouth:

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