Okay, Iâm going to try and explain how I envision the rhythm of naming - by the way, I love that terminology - using a few examplesâŚ
It all starts with your last name! Letâs take the last names [name]Keats[/name], [name]Winthrop[/name], and [name]Montgomery[/name], representing short, medium, and long last names, respectively.
[name]KEATS[/name]
First things first, I personally believe that a one syllable first name is never the âbestâ choice with a one syllable last name, but that doesnât mean it canât be done (e.g., [name]John[/name] [name]Keats[/name]). So, letâs say you fall in love with the first name [name]John[/name], yet your last name is the short [name]Keats[/name]. You must have a longer (3+ syllables) middle name to balance it out. In this case, something like [name]John[/name] [name]Harrison[/name] [name]Keats[/name] has a regal, elegant rhythm, whereas [name]John[/name] [name]Richard[/name] [name]Keats[/name] (or worse, [name]John[/name] [name]Rolf[/name] [name]Keats[/name]) sounds choppy and harsh.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Jane[/name] [name]Elizabeth[/name] [name]Keats[/name]
Next, letâs say you fall in love with a medium (2 syllable) name, [name]Henry[/name]. [name]Henry[/name] [name]Keats[/name] sounds nice, yes? Here, we can go with a two syllable or three syllable middle name to balance, such as [name]Henry[/name] [name]Landon[/name] [name]Keats[/name] or [name]Henry[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Keats[/name]. [name]Both[/name] are good options, but the first is more straightforward whereas the latter has more of a rich sound and structure to it.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Lucy[/name] [name]Frances[/name] [name]Keats[/name]
Finally, letâs say you fall in love with a long first name, [name]Nathaniel[/name]. [name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Keats[/name] sound very nice as is, which may tempt you to use a short middle name, but [name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]James[/name] [name]Keats[/name] sounds like something is missing. Here, a two syllable middle name is best, something like [name]Nathaniel[/name] [name]Joseph[/name] [name]Keats[/name] (the âreverse stair stepâ).
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Cecily[/name] [name]Frances[/name] [name]Keats[/name]
[name]WINTHROP[/name]
A one syllable first name works here, so [name]James[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name] is nice. Here, you can go with a two syllable middle name for a strong sound, [name]James[/name] [name]Patrick[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name], or choose a longer middle name for a melodic sound, [name]James[/name] [name]Benjamin[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]. I generally prefer the first option, as it sounds clearer and gives each name its own sound and feel within the combination.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Claire[/name] [name]Elise[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]
A two syllable first name with a two syllable last name is a common occurrence, as in the case of [name]Lucas[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]. Here, I think it is best to balance the syllables so as to not create a name that is overwhelming. [name]Lucas[/name] [name]Patrick[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name] sounds crisp, strong, and dignified. The name doesnât need to be dressed up ([name]Lucas[/name] [name]Benjamin[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]) or dressed down ([name]Lucas[/name] [name]James[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]), but the situation of a two syllable first and last name presents the most options for a middle name!
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Sarah[/name] [name]Marie[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name], but [name]Sarah[/name] [name]Paige[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name] and [name]Sarah[/name] [name]Genevieve[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name] work, too!
Finally, a longer first name pairs easily with a medium last name, as in the case of [name]Adrian[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]. Here, you can do pretty much anything with the name, but I believe the best option is to match the middle name to the last name here, as in [name]Adrian[/name] [name]Joseph[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]. You may want to glamorize the name by making it longer, as in [name]Adrian[/name] [name]Christopher[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name], but this makes for too many syllables to say in a short period of time. A simple middle name, [name]Adrian[/name] [name]Charles[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name], works well in this situation also, but this places more emphasis on the last name than the middle name when the entire combination is said aloud.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Celia[/name] [name]Frances[/name] [name]Winthrop[/name]
[name]MONTGOMERY[/name]
Short first names are a natural choice when you have a long last name; for instance, consider [name]James[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]. Here, I think it is best to use a âstair-stepâ effect in choosing a middle name, balancing the syllables between the first and middle names, as in [name]James[/name] [name]Patrick[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]. I say this because [name]James[/name] [name]Brett[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] lacks the elegance and rhythm that a name calls for, while [name]James[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] is overly verbose in syllables.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Claire[/name] [name]Elise[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]
You can also choose a first name of medium length when you have a longer last name, such as [name]Patrick[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]. Here, I think the best option is to match the syllables of the middle name to those in the first name, as in [name]Patrick[/name] [name]Lucas[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]. This name sounds elegant and strong, yet it doesnât have too much in it. A one syllable middle name is equally as good, as [name]Patrick[/name] [name]Charles[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] works as well in this situation, too. Here, the main rule is to not match the syllables of the last name with those in the middle name, as [name]Patrick[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] is too much of a name. A name loses its strength and presence when it is overly full of syllables.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Anna[/name] [name]Louise[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]
If you fall in love with a long first name but have a long last name, as in the case of [name]Everett[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name], all is not lost! The rule here is, though, that you should use a one syllable middle name. [name]Everett[/name] [name]James[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] has style and presence without being too short or too long. [name]Everett[/name] [name]Lucas[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] and [name]Everett[/name] [name]William[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name] are too verbose in syllables and clash with the syllables chosen for the first and last names.
IDEAL GIRL: [name]Olivia[/name] [name]Claire[/name] [name]Montgomery[/name]
In short, anything is possible - you just need to balance the rhythm of the name and all is well in naming world! Best of luck!