The Veto Game

First post here, so I apologize if this discussion has been brought up before. My husband and I are discussing TTC later this year. We’ve previously had a short discussion about possible name choices but haven’t really gotten into it for obvious reasons (uh, we’re not even pregnant yet.)

My question is how to do politely approach vetoing your partner’s preferred name choice if you don’t like it? [name_m]How[/name_m] do you handle your partner rejecting one of your favorites?

[name_m]How[/name_m] did you start the name discussion? Did you swap lists or go through a naming site together?