This or That Triplets

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[name_f]Lydia[/name_f], [name_f]Ada[/name_f], & [name_m]James[/name_m]

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or

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[name_m]Austin[/name_m], [name_f]Elizabeth[/name_f], & [name_m]Richard[/name_m]?