THIS or THAT? Two Sibsets, Same name

[name_u]Tatum[/name_u], [name_m]Gage[/name_m] & [name_f]Elke[/name_f]

Or

[name_f]Elke[/name_f], [name_m]Rupert[/name_m] & [name_u]Shane[/name_u]

[name_u]Tatum[/name_u], [name_m]Gage[/name_m], & [name_f]Elke[/name_f]

or

[name_m]Gage[/name_m], [name_u]River[/name_u], & [name_f]Lilia[/name_f]

[name_m]Gage[/name_m], [name_u]River[/name_u], & [name_f]Lilia[/name_f]

OR

[name_f]Lilia[/name_f], [name_m]Asher[/name_m] & [name_f]Esme[/name_f]