Thoughts on Vesper (for a boy)

I had previously had [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] as a “girl name that had a nice sound but didn’t fit with my style.” Then I saw someone use [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] as a boy combo and it’s safe to say that I’m hooked. I think it’s soft and gentle while still being masculine as the son of [name_f]Aurora[/name_f] in [name_m]Roman[/name_m] mythology. There’s also VSEPR theory (pronounced as vesper) which is just added nerdiness that makes me like it even more.

[name_f]Do[/name_f] you like [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] as a boy name? Any associations, imagery, etc.? To solidify my “idea” of the name: what are some sibling or middle names that you would pair with it?

Thank you for your help
(PS not currently naming anyone haha)

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I like [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] as a boy name. I associate it mainly with the evening star. When I hear the name I imagine dusk. Some people might associate it with the evening prayers.
I like the combination [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Lucas[/name_m]. I think [name_m]Lucas[/name_m] would also be a good name for [name_u]Vesper[/name_u]’s brother. A sister could be named [name_f]Camilla[/name_f].

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[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] feels very unisex to me! I actually might prefer it on a boy, it reminds me of names like [name_m]Casper[/name_m] and [name_u]Jasper[/name_u]. I don’t really have any associations with it, though it makes me think of the colour purple, violets, and stars.

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I love this name! I agree with above that it’s very unisex. It reminds me of the name [name_u]Alex[/name_u] - I know boys and girls with this name and it suits them all.

I’m actually toying with using it as my option for a second girl and I specifically like that it feels so unisex since my first girl will have a name only used for girls and I want their names to feel as unique as I’m sure they will be. I’m not bothered at all by the idea that there could be boy-[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] and girl-[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] out there in the world, in fact I think it’s kind of cute (though for such an uncommon name, they probably won’t be in the same class :wink: ).

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Vesper is a beautiful word (please post your favorite words on my thread on Everything But Names!). :slight_smile:

I see it as more female as a name, but it could work fine for boys too. I think of Anglican churches, [name_f]Barbara[/name_f] Pym novels, jumble sales, village fetes, and tea parties.

I like [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Roan[/name_u].

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Ooh, I like [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] for a boy. It’s soft but has a kind of strength.

Vesper [name_m]William[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Henry[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Caedmon[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Alexander[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Otis[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Leon[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Callum[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Reilly[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]George[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Felix[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Phinneas[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Malachi[/name_m]

Vesper and…

Arden
[name_u]Auden[/name_u]
[name_u]Winter[/name_u]
[name_m]Pascal[/name_m]
[name_u]Rowan[/name_u]
[name_m]Linus[/name_m]
[name_m]Hugo[/name_m]
[name_m]Isidore[/name_m]
[name_m]Balthasar[/name_m]
Carraway
[name_m]Caedmon[/name_m]
[name_u]Aspen[/name_u]
[name_m]Malachi[/name_m]
[name_m]Absalom[/name_m]
[name_m]Phinneas[/name_m]

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I think it’s totally useable for a boys name.

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I find it very cool and usable.

Middles:
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Augustus[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Callahan[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Julius[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Horatio[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Atticus[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Elijah[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Othello[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Laurence[/name_u]

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I can’t help but think [name_f]Vespa[/name_f] when I look at it, hear it, or say it. It’s probably my accent.

As a result, I can’t get behind it. But I’m also not the biggest fan of similars like [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] and [name_m]Casper[/name_m], so my opinion shouldn’t matter. In fact, I probably should just abandon this post and move on elsewhere.

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I really like it - it totally works on a boy!

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Ooh, I really like it! It’s definitely totally unisex feeling to me, and as you say it’s actually a male name in [name_m]Roman[/name_m] mythology. It’s got a sharp, strong, slightly dark feel to it. Very enigmatic and cool.

Middle names…

Vesper [name_u]Valentine[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Florian[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Inigo[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Corentin[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Julian[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Isidore[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Augustine[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Lucian[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Theodore[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Cymbeline[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Taliesin[/name_u]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Solomon[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Dashiell[/name_m]
[name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_u]Oberon[/name_u]

Vesper and…

Morven
[name_f]Hecate[/name_f]
[name_f]Circe[/name_f]
[name_f]Eluned[/name_f]
[name_u]Indigo[/name_u]
[name_f]Zinovia[/name_f]
[name_f]Isolde[/name_f]
[name_f]Ariadne[/name_f]
[name_u]Phaedra[/name_u]
[name_f]Wednesday[/name_f]
[name_f]Thessaly[/name_f]
[name_f]Zinnia[/name_f]
[name_f]Sunniva[/name_f]
[name_f]Tamar[/name_f]
[name_f]Vashti[/name_f]
[name_f]Viveca[/name_f]
[name_f]Kahlo[/name_f]
Wildrose
[name_f]Odette[/name_f]
[name_f]Nimue[/name_f]
[name_f]Morgana[/name_f]
[name_u]Hero[/name_u]

Veryan
[name_u]Zennor[/name_u]
[name_m]Altair[/name_m]
[name_u]Zephyr[/name_u]
[name_u]Larkspur[/name_u]
[name_m]Anduin[/name_m]
[name_m]Maxence[/name_m]
[name_m]Lazare[/name_m]
[name_u]Pascoe[/name_u]
[name_m]Florin[/name_m]
[name_m]Severin[/name_m]
[name_u]Cato[/name_u]
[name_m]Ninian[/name_m]
[name_m]Fabian[/name_m]
[name_m]Aramis[/name_m]
[name_m]Balthasar[/name_m]
[name_m]Torquil[/name_m]
Somerled
[name_m]Marius[/name_m]
[name_m]Ambrose[/name_m]
[name_m]Finian[/name_m]
[name_u]Blaise[/name_u]

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Oh, I love it! [name_f]Vespertine[/name_f] is one of my absolute favourite middles for a boy.

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Aaaahhhh I should’ve known that you were the [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] creator! [name_u]Vesper[/name_u] [name_m]Sebastian[/name_m] is a gorgeous combo

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I can’t help but think [name_f]Vespa[/name_f]-as in the scooter. I really can’t see it as a serious name for either gender. Something like [name_m]Casper[/name_m] or [name_u]Jasper[/name_u] has the same feel but is more fitting as a name.

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