SO and I are not planning on having children any time soon; but the planner in me is very confused and a little anxious. I feel like our naming style falls into three different camps and I am not sure how we’d ever really make it “work.” No matter what style we go with, they will have two middle names.
Category no. 1 - The classics (most of these will get double barrelled with a more unusual middle name as you can see in my signature. Or nicknames from classic names)
[name_u]Billy[/name_u]
[name_m]Edward[/name_m]
[name_m]John[/name_m] ([name_m]John[/name_m] [name_u]Ellis[/name_u])
[name_m]Luke[/name_m]
[name_f]Anna[/name_f] ([name_f]Anna[/name_f] [name_f]Lora[/name_f])
[name_f]Laura[/name_f]
[name_f]Mary[/name_f] ([name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Elle[/name_f], [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Belle[/name_f], [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Grace[/name_f], [name_f]Mary[/name_f] [name_f]Aurora[/name_f] etc. - so many ideas!)
[name_f]Kate[/name_f]
[name_f]Winnie[/name_f] etc.
Category no 2 - The Continental (To reflect our family’s diverse heritage)
[name_f]Amara[/name_f]
[name_f]Angelina[/name_f]
[name_f]Anastasia[/name_f]
[name_m]Conrad[/name_m]
[name_f]Elsa[/name_f]
[name_f]Emmeline[/name_f]
[name_m]Jonas[/name_m]
[name_m]Leo[/name_m]
[name_f]Lucinda[/name_f]
[name_f]Mara[/name_f]
[name_m]Matteo[/name_m]
Sorren
[name_f]Stella[/name_f]
[name_f]Thora[/name_f]
Category no 3 - “The [name_m]New[/name_m] Age” (These aren’t necessarily new age; but they just don’t feel like they fit with the others as siblings really. I wanted to use [name_m]Rowe[/name_m] [name_m]Henry[/name_m] as [name_m]John[/name_m] [name_u]Ellis[/name_u]'s brother, but it seems weird?)
[name_u]Adair[/name_u]
[name_f]Aster[/name_f]/Astor
[name_m]Bennett[/name_m]
[name_u]Clancy[/name_u] (b)
[name_u]Logan[/name_u] (b)
[name_f]Mabry[/name_f]
[name_m]Marshall[/name_m]
[name_m]Rowe[/name_m] (b)
Maybe I am overthinking this, it just feels like nothing really “goes” and it makes it hard to find anything concrete. The only thing we really desperately want is names that reflect our diverse background and so we tend to lean towards English/Irish boys names mostly and [name_m]German[/name_m], Italian or Scandinavian girls names. SO’s last name is ends in -sen and is the last name of well-known American twins. Any thoughts on this? Maybe his last name is what is making me a little stir crazy… Thanks!