My husband and I both like [name_m]Tobias[/name_m], but I don’t really like nick names. [name_u]Toby[/name_u] is also the name of my sister’s rabbit and it makes me think of a dog; so it feels more like a pet name than a human name to me.
do you think [name_m]Tobias[/name_m] leads too much to a nn? (if so, we’ll put it on the possible middle names list)