[name]Edit[/name] to add [name]Caio[/name] and Teifi
Thanks to the Berries we have out top 7 boys names for a potential first born son. We want the name to be Welsh, unusual here in [name]Wales[/name], but easy enough to pronounce. We don’t mind having to correct or explain the pronunciation as long as people can actually say the name once it’s been explained which I believe will be fine with our final choices, here in [name]Wales[/name] at least.
We have: Braith, [name]Caio[/name], Cynan, Neirin, [name]Ren[/name], [name]Sulien[/name] and Teifi. Surname is [name]Morgan[/name], middles would either be [name]William[/name] [name]Norman[/name]/[name]Norman[/name] [name]William[/name] (doesn’t flow well but has the most personal meaning), [name]William[/name] [name]North[/name] or [name]William[/name] [name]Lee[/name].
Here are the cons I can think of for each. I’d love for you to either put my mind at ease or confirm my worries with regards to the cons!:
Braith - Cons: Does sounds lispy? Does it sounds harsh and butch a la [name]Bruce[/name]? I’m more into soft, gentle boys names like [name]Emrys[/name], [name]Harlan[/name] and [name]Theodore[/name]. [name]Will[/name] it be shortened to Bry? Bry reminds me of [name]Bryan[/name] and seems middle aged!
[name]Caio[/name] - Cons: [name]Non[/name]-Welsh speakers will struggle with the pronunciaton, try listening to [name]Iolo[/name] at this link to hear how the second syllable should be said: BBC Wales - Living in Wales - Names - it’s not like [name]Theo[/name] or [name]Milo[/name]! First syllable is [name]KAI[/name]. Also, it has the same initial as [name]Claudia[/name] (our number 1 girls name) and I don’t like repeating initials.
Cynan - Cons: We both like this but isn’t a fav for either of us. The other names were all in the top 4 for both of us, but we both placed Cynan at 7. It wasn’t low enough to be scrapped (since we removed the 2 lowest off both our lists) but wasn’t a fav either. It’s inoffensive but maybe it’s a little bland too? Also there are no cute nn’s I can think of and like [name]Caio[/name] it has the same initial as [name]Claudia[/name], and because of the “an” ending it probably sounds the worst with the surname [name]Morgan[/name].
Neirin - Cons: It has the cute nn [name]Nye[/name] but does [name]Nye[/name] sound feminine? I know [name]Naomi[/name]'s who go by Nai (said the same way) so that concerns me. I think it sounds better than Cynan but it doesn’t sound great with [name]Morgan[/name] either.
[name]Ren[/name] - Cons: I adore this one but have two huge concerns! The [name]Ren[/name] and Stimpy association? Although I don’t think it’ll be a problem in my child’s generation, I worry our friends, siblings and cousins will all think of it. The second bigger concern though is the authenticity of it’s origins. Any name history buffs out there? I find lots of sources out there stating it is a Welsh name meaning ruler but also many sources saying it’s Japenese and English so not sure. Maybe all these origins are equally true? Maybe it’s a name like [name]Suri[/name] which has several meanings. Also it has the same initial as [name]Rafferty[/name] but this would probably only be used if we had at least 3 maybe 4 boys so it’s not a huge concern, and finally I worry that [name]Wren[/name] is becoming popular for girls and it could seem feminine.
[name]Sulien[/name] - Cons: It doesn’t sound at all good with [name]William[/name], in fact it sounds silly…which leads me nicely to the second con, sometimes I think the first two syllables sound like “silly”. I do try to emphasise the “seal” sound of the first syllable but when I say it fast it sounds more like silly-un. Also I think this is the name that would encounter the most pronunciation problems.
Teifi - Cons: Does it clash with one of my fav girls names [name]Ivy[/name]? Does it sound too nicknamey and possibly not as sophisticated as some of our other choices? ([name]Claudia[/name], [name]Lennox[/name], [name]Penelope[/name] etc). It’s pronounced TAVE-ee.
I can’t wait to hear whether you agree or disagree with my cons lists! Which do you think are ones you could live with and which are deal breakers?